Theres a girl I met at work and over about 4 months we have become pretty good friends. What Im not sure about is whether she likes me or if its just her personality. I have begun to like her and would def. want to go out with her. When we are around each other we have a great time, never get tired of each, and just act like kids and have good chemistry. Sometimes when at work I can see staring at me, which makes me think she may like me. However the only thing is, she has a boyfriend that shes had for over a year now. She rarely brings him up, but when she does it seems like its always something negative with how he forgets stuff or is treating her. I really cant tell if she is also interested or if she just looks at us as friends. What do you all think, does she like me?
2006-09-03 04:48:29 · 18 answers · asked by Evane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks for the responses, I understand most of them, But for the people saying just ask her out, I dont want to ask her out when she knows that I know she has a boyfriend, thats disrespectful. And I could just tell her how I feel but then it could get really akward at work and when we hang out.
2006-09-03 04:55:57 · update #1
Ask her questions about her boyfriend. This may give you a better idea. If she's touchy about him, drop it.
2006-09-03 04:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by Caroline 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she does. Take a chance and ask her out. The worst thing that can happen is she'll tell you she would rather be just friends. That's a whole lot better then spending the rest of your life wondering what she would have said. I have a couple of those thoughts, and I'm still wondering if I missed out on something really great.
2006-09-03 11:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by jinxybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she has a strong feeling for you in order to pull her own boyfriend down seeking that attention. But also look at the fact if she is very outgoing towards other males.
if she ever talks about ending it with her boyfriend too you then their is something there. i have done it before.
Just stay like this for the moment, sit back, relax and see what happens to find out how she really works then you will know.
2006-09-03 11:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she likes you....and you should let her know how you feel about her, and also bring up the fact you KNOW she has a boyfriend and you don't expect anything from her as such.
You speaking up might be the impetus for her to leave her current boyfriend...it won't hurt to try.
Good luck!
2006-09-03 11:50:59 · answer #4 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are her good friend. You are their for her to talk to. And she likes that about. She is probably thinking, he is a great person. She probably does like you. Just keep being there for her.
2006-09-03 11:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know ppl on answers are supposed to help you but you got to help yourself. ask her if she would like to go out sometime like on a date! My guess is she will say yes but then again she does have a boyfriend its your chose
2006-09-03 11:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this could just be that she wants to dump him for you, but it's hard too, i think she may like you, just play things out, keep going out and having a good time, time will only tell.
2006-09-03 11:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by Franky Tank Runner 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I WOULD TELL HER THAT U RESPECT THE FACT THAT SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND BUT MAYBE SHE WOULD LIKE 2 GO TO LUNCH OR SOMETHING SOMETIME? I WOULDN'T PUSH IT THO..I DONT AGREE WITH BREAKING PEOPLE UP..THAT NEEDS TO BE HER DECISION..U MAY WANT TO LET HER KNOW YOUR INTERESTED BUT WAIT UNTIL SHE IS SINGLE AGAIN..
2006-09-03 11:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by annelg 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she does like you but DO NOT make a move on her until she dumps the boyfriend.
2006-09-03 11:51:03 · answer #9 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her out for a casual cup of coffee
2006-09-03 11:51:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋