My sister and i are going out with these guys. They are brothers. Recently my boyfriend kissed my sister who is 10 years younger than me and 12 years younger than my boyfriend who is 32 this year. She pushed him away and then came along and told me and her boyfriend. I slapped her. Her boyfriend wasn't mad at her cause it wasn't her who kissed him. She's 20 years old and her boyfriend has just turned 29. But her boyfriend punched his bro (my boyfriend). So they aren't talking at the moment. I forgave my sister but should i forgive my boyfriend? Do you think he still loves me or does he like my sister better?
2006-09-03 04:38:34 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ha ha Paul L.
I'm not a cheat.
2006-09-03 04:45:31 · update #1
Hey sarch uk. I slapped her before she told me she pushed him away
2006-09-03 04:48:15 · update #2
John Q he's 2 years older than me. He's 32 and i'm 30. My sis has already forgiving me
2006-09-03 04:51:02 · update #3
She never pushed herself to his lips. He pushed himself to her lips. I don't need to slap him. His bro punched him
2006-09-03 04:54:10 · update #4
Would someone plz read the additional details. My boyfriend isn't 2 old for me. He's 2 old for my sis
2006-09-03 04:56:42 · update #5
My boyfriend and i have a 3 year old son together and my sis is 13 weeks pregnant with her boyfriends baby
2006-09-03 04:59:37 · update #6
Oh ya my sis is engaged 2 her boyfriend
2006-09-03 05:03:05 · update #7
She never kissed my boyfriend. She pushed him away as soon as he put his lips on hers. Her boyfriend knows this. He's mad with his bro not her. I know i was wrong for slapping my sis
2006-09-03 05:06:49 · update #8
Get rid of him! Anyone who could treat you, your sister and their own brother like that doesnn't deserve to be forgiven. He needs to grow up!
2006-09-03 04:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You slapped your sister, who walked up to you and told you what a big JERK your boyfriend really is!? ASTONISHING! You should have slapped your boyfriend and dumped him! If your boyfriend loved you, he wouldn't be looking in someone else for some affection!
Have you talked to your boyfriend about the kiss? What did he say? What was going on in your mind when you slapped your sister? Were you able to think clearly?
In my opinion, you should trust your sister a little more than you already do, and i would also say DUMP YOUR BOYFRIEND
2006-09-03 04:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all realize that YOU were out of line not only for being physical with your sister but obviously acting out of emotion or unclear thinking. She did not instigate the kiss, immediately reported it to you and her boyfriend and was obviously not encouraging what YOUR boyfriend instigated against her wishes. There WAS nothing to forgive and you blamed the victim...
Your boyfriend is anything but your boyfriend. Dump him and realize this is unlikely the first time he has done this to a female, only the first you are aware. He feels he is entitled to treat other people without respect to his own end. If you stay with him get ready for a lot of pain and heart breaking incidents. You were off the top in being out of line.
2006-09-03 04:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by jodie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am sure your sister understands why you slapped her it was just a shocked reaction. Its a messy situation so its hard to know what you should do but I dont think you should forgive your boyfriend, if hes capable of kissing ur sister of all people what else has he done that you dont know about or what will he do in the future.. just dont think he can be trusted and will cause you more heartache in the long run.. u deserve to be with some1 who cares about you enuf to be faithful
2006-09-07 01:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by singlemother22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must do a lot of soul searching to answer this one, you have a child with him so you must be clear of what you want then stick to it. do you stay with him for the sake of your child? do you really love him? are you afraid to be without him? will you ever be able to trust him again? all questions that you need to answer truthfully yourself, a single happy parent is far better than two parents who are not happy with each other, if you are not sure whether you love him visualise your life without him and see how it makes you feel, never be afraid of being alone you will always have your child and your sister(who has proved her love for you). but most of all be true to yourself, you deserve to be treated better than this do not put yourself down, no one is better or worse than you, we should all be equal and we all deserve the best. if he really loved you or respected you then he would not have acted in this way, and who knows if this is the only time it has happened, the only reason you know now is because your sister thought enough of you to tell you what had happened. good luck in what ever you decide.
2006-09-03 07:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by mythmagicdragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing, u shoudnt have slapped your sister, she was honest with you, would you have it the other way, she hiding things like this from you? your boyfriend went after her, if he really loves you then why kiss your sister? if you look at it, better that this happened now, than trusting him too much and discover his disloyalty to you later when you are living together and having kids. if he did this to your sister the more he can do this to another woman... i wish u well my dear...hope this will help u think of reasons to keep this guy...
2006-09-03 04:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by mela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a movie plot that's going to get worse -- you're still in Act I. Why don't you dump the guy and write a screenplay or a novel and become rich and famous, and let them have their little coffee table threesome or whatever it is, while you're off at parties meeting new people.
2006-09-03 04:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by Katrine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask your boyfriend to explain himself as there is a child to consider in all this mess.At least your sister was honest and told you about this that`s loyalty for you.Maybe suggest a trial separation with your boyfriend as he obviously is not fully committed to you and your child,you also need to ask yourself this has he done this to anybody else?I think he does not respect you or his child to do that.........Good luck.
2006-09-03 05:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes forgive him because unforgiveness only hurts you BUT dump his as*s! He does not care about you if he is trying to kiss your sister! Move on. If does not cheat on you with your sister he will cheat with someone else. Forget him and get a guy who has some control of himself and who truly cares about you!
2006-09-03 04:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by strawberries 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i can't tell u if he love u more or if he love her more cause i don't know him. well i think u should not forgive him because he kiss ur own sister that means that he don't care about how u feel cause thats ur own sis it would be differnt if it was a other girl
2006-09-03 04:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by lovelycece246 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋