ok i've known this female for a while. just started getting intimate. well she used to date a good friend of mine for a couple years but it wasn't a good one so the situation is sticky. she's seems like she is moving super fast. maybe cause she really is in to me or maybe cause she needs someone to fill the lonely side of her. can't figure it out. the ex treated her like crap and she kept running back. i just don't know if she will run back again one day if he decides he wants to be with here again. it's really puzzling me i'm trying to decide if i want to be who i think she wants me to be that would mean telling my friend which will probably be ex friend and the circle of friends we hang out with. really don't care about that but just want to make sure it's for the right reasons. she also still has pictures of him up that really makes me uncomfortable to see when i stay over after a long night of........well you know. help?????????????
2006-09-03 04:21:43 · 5 answers · asked by helloyello 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who she wants you to be? Be who y ou are and to hell with what anyone else wants you to be. If she still has pics. of this guy on display when you are there I think she's still hung up on him. Sounds like she's using you. I really, really think you should stay away from her. She's bad news.
2006-09-03 04:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is always the best policy. let her know these things that are making you wonder. if she is with you why would she keep pics of him? thats not a good sign. she needs to decide one way or the other and not keeping you hanging. and furthermore why would you want o be someone you are not? just be yourself and if she doesn't like you then you need to tell her to move on.
2006-09-03 11:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and have an honest talk with her. Tell her all of this and that you are concerned. Be honest with both yourself and her-but dont change just to please one girl. There are plenty of fish in the sea, dont get so tied down to just one when she already has issues.
2006-09-03 11:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r confusing me wit ur words
2006-09-03 11:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by Frendlygal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm already in trouble, i can't help
2006-09-03 11:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋