Ok I have a nephew right! but his older than me, so we say were cousins right! he has this girl friend that treats him like $hit! and he’s parents don’t like her and well neither dose the rest of the familie like her! so yesterday after we went to the movies (to see crank) he said that he’s Engaged!(like going to get married) and im his dads, brother and I dot know if I should tell him!(my brother) or just leave it!
(he’s been in and out of the hospital for poping pills, and running away! he’s a completely different person then the one I used to know!)
I don’t know what to do if I tell he will hate me- if I don’t and his parents find out, then the whole thing will come blowing back at me!- If I tell my other older brother than he would tell him! It will come back at me and I still look bad! what should i do!
"HE 18" and been at the hospitail 2 times in less than a month!!!!!!!!
2006-09-03 04:02:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
hes been trying im trying to help but hes stubern!
2006-09-03 04:08:48 · update #1
HE IS "17"
2006-09-03 04:39:31 · update #2
First of all, this is NOT A Military Question -- so please check before you post as to the correct category.
Second -- tell your brother -- right now. Do NOT hide this information from him. It is best to be honest with your direct sibling rather than hide the information.
LET your brother deal with the problems --
and since the 'kid' is 18 anyway -- the Brother can deal with it like he SHOULD (Legally) --
starting with going to the local courthouse -- and FILING formally for Eviction of the 'kid' from his home -- and DO IT -- pay the fee, mail/serve the papers and show up in court -- sounds like the 'kid' is not able to be responsible -- and the only way the 'kid' will learn is to HAVE to deal with Adult Responsibilities.
2006-09-03 04:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your nephew sounds like he has his own issues he needs to deal with on his own. You can only help to a certain extent. But he's 18 and in the eyes of the law, he is a grown man. He is capable of making his own decisions. You may just have to step aside and let him deal with the consequences of his actions on his own. You are not responsible for him. His parents are and it sounds like they have very little control over him either. So keep your peace. You are a child and have no business involving yourself in grown up affairs. If his parents would be that upset at him getting married and not saying anything, the blame rests on his shoulders, not yours. You don't live his life, he does! Good luck honey and remember, when the boo boo hits fan, tell his family that is their child and they need to communicate with him, not you!!
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2016-11-24 19:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell his father, it sounds like your nephew needs help, and the way to help him is tell his dad. Is there anyone else who knows both your nephew and his father that he has told about the engagement, if there is then tell your brother straight up that you don't want your nephew to know you told. He might make up some way he figured out or something, but if your nephew gets mad because you told, just think, it might get worse if you don't.
2006-09-03 04:11:43 · answer #4 · answered by what? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
you talk to that girl about the whole affair and say clearly that you can she help u?if she agree the you say that you are very much serious about the health of the person concerned.and request her to leave the person for health sake.other hand u also take his parents in confidence and tell him evry thing and talk with the boy that how much you concern about his health and ask him to be in good health.but do not promise any thing in return.
2006-09-03 04:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by nawab allam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your bro to talk to his son that thier is something he needs to know but you can`t tell him what it is but you can tell him it is nothig bad just stupid. then your keeping your word and looking out for your nephew
2006-09-03 04:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by steamroller98439 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it to his dad to straighten him out, it's not your problem.
2006-09-03 04:07:07 · answer #7 · answered by Black Sabbath 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mind your own business, he's 18 he can make his own decisions.
2006-09-03 04:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by johnavaro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋