Ok I have a nephew right! but his older than me, so we say were cousins right! he has this girl friend that treats him like $hit! and he’s parents don’t like her and well neither dose the rest of the familie like her! so yesterday after we went to the movies (to see crank) he said that he’s Engaged!(like going to get married) and im his dads, brother and I dot know if I should tell him!(my brother) or just leave it!
(he’s been in and out of the hospital for poping pills, and running away! he’s a completely different person then the one I used to know!)
I don’t know what to do if I tell he will hate me- if I don’t and his parents find out, then the whole thing will come blowing back at me!- If I tell my other older brother than he would tell him! It will come back at me and I still look bad! what should i do!
"HE 18" and been at the hospitail 2 times in less than a month!!!!!!!!
2006-09-03 03:59:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
so far i think im the only one he told!
2006-09-03 04:03:10 · update #1
he says hes in love but i dont think so i think hes trying to get revenge on his parents!(dont ask me why)
2006-09-03 04:05:34 · update #2
he has already been cought pooping pills and sneaking out for this girl!
2006-09-03 04:06:34 · update #3
his friends are ok! its just HIM
2006-09-03 04:14:28 · update #4
tell the parents but make sure they act like they didnt fnd out from you..go where your heart tells you...good luck :)
2006-09-03 04:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the engagement thing alone. He probably dates her out of defiance, and will find someone just like her if this one is broken up. The far bigger problem is his drugs and attitude. You alone cannot help him through this. Leave it to his parents. Stay out of it, and away from him until he is seeking positive help. This is not your problem. It is his problem. If your parents or your brother ask why you aren't hanging with him anymore, tell them you are uncomfortable with his choice of friends and his new lifestyle. Good Luck.
2006-09-03 04:12:09 · answer #2 · answered by lollipop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has your "cousin" been popping pills and running away because of this girlfriend? If so then you should definately tell somebody. Why don't you tell one of your parents and see what they say. It sounds like the girl is not good for him.
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2016-12-06 05:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs help. First of all he must deal with his addiction problems, obviously he suffers from a poor self image which is why he is popping pills. What he needs is people to support him to allow him to feel good about himself. As far as who he marries well that is entirely up to him. Continue to be a good friend and let him live his own life. Imagine if your family told you who to marry. As far as her treating him like crap well currently he is treating himself like crap.
2006-09-03 04:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by ann w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your older brother, because he knows how to handle it more then you probably can. Especially if there comes fights, and everything.
2006-09-03 04:06:04 · answer #6 · answered by allison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would explain to him that it leaves you in a dilemma and because you care for him and because you are you, you have to tell your brother. You feel that he is forcing you to divide your loyalty.
Explain that you will tell your brother because you are concerned about him and his decision making. Tell him that he can choose to accept this and accept who you are or he can choose not to. BUT you will not compromise on your integrity and loyalty to him nor his father, your brother
2006-09-03 04:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by Bohemian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them because u could get in trouble if your dad finds out that u kept the secret ...... that is just my answer
have a great day :)
2006-09-03 04:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes better tell your parents or ur brother or someone that will talk to him and tell them that you don't tell my nephew ok?...good luck with that
2006-09-03 04:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by pisceslady a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it isn't your story to tell, its his life, let him make the decisions..however, if you think he's making a huge mistake talk to him about it, and then if something doesn't go well, tell your brother....best wishes!:)
2006-09-03 04:21:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋