My boyfriend has been working all week long and we have not seen eachother since last week. Yesterday he didnt tell me he was getting off early or that he was going out. He wasnt even planning on calling me. So i found when i decided to call him to see if he was still busy at work like he said. When i reached him said he had been home for an hour and was going out partying after he said that i told i will c him when i c him and i havent talked to him since 5pm yesterday. And i plan on going partying tonite.
2006-09-03 03:56:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And i told him to kiss my @ss.
2006-09-03 03:56:54 · update #1
he acted it like it was no big deal and he did nothing wrong.
2006-09-03 03:57:17 · update #2
watch if i go out he will have a ***** fit.
2006-09-03 04:03:40 · update #3
Your boyfriend doesn't sound like he cares about the relationship as much anymore. It sounds to me like he is giving you some type of clue he should come out and just tell you he's not interested in a relationship with you anymore instead of trying to give you clues and playing these kid games with you. If he really wanted to see you and cared that much about you he would have atleast called you. He didn't even bother to call you and talk to you after work. What does that tell you? You had to call him and find out that he happened to be home. What if you never had called? He would have went home and went out to party and you would have thought he was still working. By the way how do you know he was working really late last week if he didn't even bother to tell you he was off yesterday? Second, why did he not even bother to come by and spend time with you if he had time off. He went out to party rather then spend time with you. You need to dump this loser because he's treating you like you don't even matter. There are so many men that would be happy to take his place and treat you like royalty. You need to get you a good man that wants to be with you and cares more about your feelings and wants to spend quality time with you. You go out and party and do your thing. Open your heart and mind up to possibly meeting and being with someone else. His lost will be another man's gain. Listen to your heart and follow it. Good luck!!!
2006-09-03 04:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to be with anyone as inconsiderate as he seems to be. It doesn't sound like he wants to be with you, he'd rather have you on the side for when he's ready for you. My answer is YES you should be mad and you should demand that he respect you more than he is. If he can't do that, drop him like a hot potato and move on. There are bigger and better fish in the sea. People don't 'change' hon...they may 'try' to change but eventually things are right back to normal for them. Good luck with everything!
2006-09-03 11:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by Inquisitive1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should evaluate what you want from a relationship. You have a right to be mad about your treatment, but how you use the anger is what matters.
You should move on if you want more from a relationship. You cannot change another person, only yourself. So, if you think cursing him out, threatening him, whining, or being manipulative will change him, you are wrong. He will only change if he wants to no matter what you say or do.
2006-09-03 11:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you aren't a big priority on his list. But it's not a bad thing all the time, but its also normal that you want to spend time with your boyfriend! Maybe you should find someone who understands that!
2006-09-03 11:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Dre 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely be mad. It's seems like he would rather be with his friends that spend time with you... and for that... you don't need him. You can find someone that wants to spend time with you....especially if you have hazel eyes... cause they're beautiful!!! Don't ever let someone bring you down. People will only do what you allow them to do.
2006-09-03 11:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by jealous of the moon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, guys do sometimes need space and not feel that they have to spend every free minute with you, however, i'd say just let this be for awhile, dont contact him, let him be and you go out and have a great time-just live your life and see what happens
2006-09-03 10:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go partying tonite...party hearty and find someone to help you forget about your so-called b/f..
2006-09-03 11:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when time is short we tend to prioritize,,his priority wasn't you I'm afraid,,he has a choice who to spend his little time with and if it isn't you,maybe have a word about if the relationship is working,,it takes two.
2006-09-03 10:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This reminds me of that Oprah's episode about the book 'He's Just Not That Into You'.
2006-09-03 11:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are sooooooo different. They feel if they work that it is just fine to do as they please. Do not sit and wait. Find things to do to keep busy as this does get worse after you get married!!!
2006-09-03 10:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋