wen we started dating he had to go away after 2 weeks of meeting him abroad, for more then a month. he called me from abroad a few times and so did i. when he came back he was under alot of stress due to financial matters. anyway, we where together for around 3 months. we broke up because i would foreplay but not intercourse and he found that rather strange. anyway, i see him all the time at this place i go to with my friends and he also goes to with his. i have seen him many times looking at me then looking away. i cant understand why. anyway we did say that we would remain friends so i called him to see how he was interms of if his personal probs. i sent a text a few weeks later asking him to call me bak wen he gets the chance as i need to ask somthing and i got a call bak straight away. i chatted and asked him wen he is free to meet up he said that he is really going through some probs at present and will call once things have settled to meet. do u think he still likes me as i do?
2006-09-03 03:47:17 · 5 answers · asked by sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like he is feeling the same as you in terms of not sure where the relationship could stand. Maybe he realizes that the last time he had issues(financial or so) and wants to make sure he doesnt have these issues before seeing where the two of you could go. Give it some time. Be patient and he will contact you.
2006-09-03 03:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by tiggermej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Sam, it seems that this guy likes you, but the question is does he like you enough to withstand only foreplay and not sexual intercourse? From what you have mentioned it doesnt seem so. Every person looks out for what best suits him, he is doing that at the moment and so should you. When you find a person who puts your needs and best interest infront of his, then you know that you would have found the ONE. In the meanwhile, it is best not to contact him further because this will only make you more attached, and by that causing you unwanted heartache. I know it is easier said than done, but moving on takes courage for you to let go, and it seems you possess that ability. Ahead of you lies a great journey , dont miss out and let time pass by. Good luck .
2006-09-03 11:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by Maria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you should move on to new grounds. Find another boy friend. If it does not work the first time then do you think a second go around will work. Girl move on.
2006-09-03 10:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think so. Don't contact him for a while, see if he will show up. If he doesn't, let him go. Look for someone else.
2006-09-03 10:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by paolapoggi50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should find another guy who will be able to appreciate you even when you feel you arent yet ready for intercourse
2006-09-03 10:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by ntu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋