I'm in my upper 40s. I would like to get into a relationship with a woman that would like to have children... unfortunately women my age generally don't want or can't have children. Women that want or are able to have children generally don't want to date a man my age. Am I out of time? Did that ship sail for me? Advice please...?
2006-09-03 03:46:30 · 19 answers · asked by westfield47130 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you are NOT out of time. You can still have children. I am 25 and I have dated men in their 40's but most men that age don't want to have kids. There are also many women who can have kids well into their 30's. I am sure they will also date a guy your age. Don't give up. You can still have the children you want!
2006-09-03 03:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a Dad is N.E.V.E.R been to late, there are alots of way to become a dad, If you find woman that can't have children, then maybe both of you can adopt and became a good and responsible parents, dont look for women who doesnt like children because both you will end miserable. Don't judge a younger woman easily, you will never tell what will happen, LOVE will always find away! For scientific explaination, Man as long he can produce sperm cells he can create a life, it doesn't matter what age of the woman is,
Don't worry so much, everyone of us have destined partner that will share all the happiness in this world, let your heart explore, you will never know what love can do miracle!Good Luck!
2006-09-03 04:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by ksmarcelino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever give up on something you want. There are plenty of women who can have children into their late 30s and im sure they would like dating a 40 yr old. If you are having lots of trouble finding these women then I might suggest something like eharmony, where you have to pay to belong so you know the people are serious and you can say exactly what you want in a partner and everything.
2006-09-03 03:54:19 · answer #3 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tht ship has sailed but u have the rope of tht ship still in ur hand...means go and have a relationship with a woman already having children in this way u will get children and woman will get love.
2006-09-03 03:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by The Hawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Base your decision on the overall welfare of the child during the next 18 years.
If you are still "young at heart" and vital enough to chase kids around and care for a child if the mother isn't there, then you're not too old.
If you're already having age associated problems you may want to give that some more thought.. because if the woman ends up not being able to care for the child, you will have to be able to raise them alone.
2006-09-03 03:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's so sweet.... too bad you didnt think about kids earlier in life...but NO I dont think it's too late. Dating women in their 30's will obvioulsly increase your'e chances of becoming a father. You wanting to be a 'dad'.....there are a lot of single women out there with kids....who desperately need a 'dad'....becoming somebodies step father is an extremely important role... my step father was awesome....and as much if not more to me than my real father was ever....( my stepfather has now passed away god rest his soul....my 'real' father is continuining to hurt me and Im 37!!) You could be an amazing 'dad' to a child or children out there...even if you havent created them... a 'dad' is a positive role model and somebody who genuinely cares.....and who's there for a child. Bringing a child into the world may give you the title of 'father' but it doesnt make you a DAD..... Im sure you'll make an amazing father/dad for somebody one day soon................ good luck... there are'nt enough honest guys in the world...you'll be an amazing dad.
2006-09-03 03:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, your just in time man. :P Take my parents for example, 43 dad and 20 mom , i actually have and older brother 20 years older than me. Now the real key is knowing where to look. Dont go looking for city girls try a nice town girl. Ive found theyre usually a bit shyer but dont generally mind age. If your really desprete you might try going to mexico to get a wife. I lived in mexico for a while, and for some reason it seems young girls really really like older guys.
2006-09-03 04:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by dragongml 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it did not! Their are plenty of women in their 40s that is looking for the same thing that you are! God did not put a time limit on when & when we can not have children anymore! People had made that rule on their own! There is someone out there for you, don't give up hope! Just put all of your faith, trust, & love, in God, & in yourself! And that special person will be coming your way!
GOOD LUCK
&
GOD BLESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-03 04:03:36 · answer #8 · answered by bigred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most definitely not. women my age date me your age all the time and some women your age still want to have children don't give up
2006-09-05 11:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by dark rockchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 38 and my husband is 49. We have twins that are 20 months old. Living proof that it is no to late for you. Good Luck.
2006-09-03 04:43:42 · answer #10 · answered by Donna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋