he meet an other family and the woman filled his head with **** i hurt and he doesnt care my heart is broken for he is my youngest son he comes from a large family 8 children and he is the second youngest he has never given me a moment of grief until this happened and he turned 18 i have spoken to this family and i know the young man they speak about is a stranger my son is loving and honest and we have ALWAYS GOT ON SO WELL.. i miss him so much yes i have reached out to him but too no avail. Only a mother could know this pain and i cannot understand why this woman cannot know i am hurting she has played with his head i am not allowed to ring him < he changed his Ph No last week >i havent spoken to him for 4 months i cannot even know where he lives my God what did i do that was so wrong. THIS WOMAN HAS 3 KIDS OF HER OWN MUCH YOUNGER THAN MY SON SHE HAS A DEFACTO. AND NOW SHE HAS MY SON ... PLEASE COME HOME I MISS YOU JJ
2006-09-03 03:33:22 · 15 answers · asked by Annie R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She is probably brain washing him with nonsense and having an affair with him..........since she is an older woman he probably thinks that he is in love and he listens and does what every she says........I know it hurts but you have to be patient, he will come back home and he will need your support and understanding........
2006-09-03 03:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mother of three grown children and my heart aches for you. I know what you must be feeling. The only thing you can do is to wait it out. Seems this women has turned him against you, but he will realize soon enough what she is doing to him. You will have to be patient and wait for him to come to you. Oh, I know it's going to be hard. Probably the most difficult thing you have done in your life, but you have to wait it out. He's 18 now, so there's no way to force him to come home. Just have patience and faith that he will do the right thing in the end. You did your best, that is all that you can do right now. Bless you...
2006-09-03 03:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you must be feeling alot of pain and I sympathize with you. However, you can not drag him back home. You will have to be strong and face this. I remember reading a verse wants that said something like , God loans us babies to observe their growth but at no time do they belong to us, so therefore make them strong so they can survive allow them to fly so they may feel the ups and downs of life. and love them no matter what so they can be secure knowing you are there.
2006-09-03 03:44:51 · answer #3 · answered by kiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would desire to be that some thing has disrupted his physique clock. Shift workers manage this sleep disruption in a similar way. with the intention to purely right his drowsing varieties he desires some suggestion from his physician (who will additionally do a checkup for the different motives.) he's old adequate to type this out for himself. Ask him to be certain a doctor to your peace of ideas. If he refuses, there is no longer lots you're able to do, i'm afraid.
2016-11-06 08:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by pachter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pray for God to help you.
Maybe she told him she is in love with him, and told him that you wouldn't approve.Or
maybe you should go to police and tell them.
I hear some people like that take out a insurance policy
and trick the innocent people into believing something to keep them around until they do something bad to the innocent person.
2006-09-03 03:42:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys need to do this. Once he feels assured of his own manhood (or the money runs out) he will come home.
2006-09-03 03:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have 8 children you are lucky he left, try to encourage a few more to do the same.
2006-09-03 03:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by daydoom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's not the other woman, he could have just decided that hey, he's 18, why stay at home?
2006-09-03 03:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He know where home is....and who his mother is....He is 18 and thinks he knows EVERYTHING!! Just give him time and space.....i promise he will come around....if you do talk to him just tell him that you love him and he will alway be welcome...dont stalk him tho....let him contact you.
2006-09-03 03:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God be with you. my son is a Marine and all I can do is pray for him and me. Despite the pain, misery from worry, sleepless nights and endless tears-God!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-03 03:37:59 · answer #10 · answered by Diamondntheruf 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋