my boyfriend and i have been going out for a month and a couple of weeks, he asked me if i was a virgin (i am) so i said yes, i asked him and he said yes, too. however the problem stems from his best friend who is alsomy best friend, he told me, that my boyfriend is lying and that he had sex with three girls, severals times, but i asked him, r u sure ur a virgin, he still insists that he is, but i know that my best friend would not lie. what do i do, so i stay with him, do i play with his head to try to get him to tell the truth. please help me.
2006-09-03 02:46:31 · 13 answers · asked by vernoica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Does your best friend know for sure he had sex? Some guys say they did things so they will look better in front of their friends.Not saying that he is or is not a virgin, thats's up to you, can you trust what he says? Also talk to him about what your friend said, dont yell or act like your mad, just talk. If he makes your happy and you can trust him, just stay with him.
2006-09-03 03:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by skater_cxs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would play wit his head. I would start out with hey I want u know this, I am not a virgin. If he asks with who I would say with however his best friend is and be4 u tell him this I would go talk to his best friend and tell him to go along with it. Then if he gets all upset I would say he is not a lying to u. But if he don't he prob is lying to u
2006-09-03 09:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by ~*Kt*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play with his head, games are not a good thing. You need to think about if you want to be in a relationship with someone who lies to you about something you think is important. You want trust in a relationship. Without trust, the relationship is already dead.
2006-09-03 09:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by ncladams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't play games. Either you are okay with it or you aren't. Let him know that this is important to you. Plus you don't want to catch anything as a result of his promiscuity.
Whether I think it's okay or not you have to ask yourself that question. It's apparent that you feel that he has betrayed your trust in him. Otherwise, you wouldn't still be asking him the question.
2006-09-03 23:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother playing with his head. Do you want to have to spend the entire rest of your life playing with guy's heads in hopes of getting them to tell the truth? It's not worth it, believe me. There are actually honest guys out there, as far-fetched as that might sound. Dishonest guys are not worth the time or the effort.
2006-09-03 09:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And asking him straight out and explaining that someone that you trust has told you differently isn't an option because...?
If he's lying to you about something that you think is important, you'd probably be better off without him. And if you're contemplating "playing with his head" then he'd probably be better off without you.
2006-09-03 09:52:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not leave this matter like this.
You need to find out the truth
May be he loves u too much so he's scared to tell u the truth....
Convince him tht u wont leave him after comin across the real truth
Good luck baby
2006-09-03 09:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sakina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who Cares! There are very few virgins after age 18 anyway. So I assume you're under 18. It's very unlikely you will marry this guy anyway.
2006-09-03 10:45:11 · answer #8 · answered by ask4marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time; insecurity and dishonest do not make for a strong relationship.
2006-09-03 16:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by gwencristel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you want a virgin boy friend for? for first course?
2006-09-03 09:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋