I am 15 years old and I have never had a girlfriend. I am waiting for the real one that I will marry with. Maybe I am old-fashioned, over-sentimental and not-cool but I am waiting for the real one.
I masturbate regulary (once a day)
I intend to have sex for the first time sometime after the age of 18.
Are my opinions OK?
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2006-09-03 02:36:26 · 29 answers · asked by ciomlol 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I think that you are a great kid. I don't think boys your age should have girlfriends because dating is all about finding a wife. That is how it should be anyway. Nowadays, kids are engaging in sexual activity way too soon and it is causing all kinds of problems for them. They aren't emotionally ready for that. You hear all the time about kids killing the girl who slept with her boyfriend, or the girl that broke his heart. This didn't happen when kissing was all that kids did on a date. So wait, and don't let anyone make you feel like you are immature or weird. I think you are a great kid and very smart!
2006-09-03 03:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by CARLA E 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only once a day!!
come on kid keep up,
Real w***ers do it at least 3.
Ok well, dude, your opinions are your opinions. You so blantantley don't need affirmation from a load of strangers on the internet telling you, your a sound guy.
Also as like a free citizen, you are so entitled to any opinion you want my friend, it's only the way you express it that can get you into trouble.
I'm a little confused, as to why you are telling people about your self pleasuring habits.
oh well,
hey man, besides you don't NEED to have sex with your girlfriend (now who's being old fashioned!?!) You can do that "courting" thang that y'grandparents rave about!
I think you need to, realise that there's a lot more to relationships than sex, so yeah, anyway waiting's not such a big deal.
And remember, stay protected. (Catholics (et al.)- please don't take offense!)
2006-09-10 13:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ontol 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about girlfriend at this age- u will loose a lot many other good things in life if u fall now for it.
there is nothing like a real one- all r real ones only. u cannot make a doll ur gf.
reduce masterbation- it will effect ur married life.
pl don't intend to have sex at 18 because u won't be married by that time
ur opinions r totally wrong.
pl follow the above- ur life will be beautiful permanently
otherwise temporary pleasures will lead u to a permanent disabled life.
all the best if u follow.
2006-09-11 08:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea to get married to your first girlfriend. I've neven been married, but have seen many failed marriages where one of the two had only gone out with that person. You really need to get to know different kinds of people before you can choose the right one. Masturbating is fine. Waiting to have sex until after 28 is fine to if that's your choice.
2006-09-11 01:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by BT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you can plan for when you will have a girlfriend or lifetime partner. It happens when you meet the "right person". In the same manner, you cannot plan on when you want to have sex. It will happen when you find the right partner to have sex with.
It is best to focus on what it takes to have a healthy relationship, such as common interests, respect, etc., instead of the physical and sexual aspect as that has very little to do with what makes a long-lasting relationship.
2006-09-11 05:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Erize Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are wonderful goals. And very safe goals. It is special when you find the right person, and I agree it should be shared together. I think this is being a gentleman, more women would like to meet men like you. And yeah it is old fashioned, but it is sweet, ladies like that kind of stuff. Sex shouldn't be the most important thing like people make it out to be. Good luck on your journey.
2006-09-10 00:40:29 · answer #6 · answered by mystique133333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean you are waiting for the right one? you say you are going to have sex after you turn 18. well what you say makes no sense. If you are waiting for the right one, what are you waiting on? having sex? getting married? And how are you going to find the right one if you never have any girlfriends? what does having a girlfriend mean to you? Also if you are going to have sex after turning 18, then what are you talking about waiting? you make no sense! like the one guy says Grow Up!
2006-09-09 15:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbate once a day is way too little dude. Increase the momentum by masturbating at least 3 times a day, after every meal.
2006-09-11 04:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by Scouser7674 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the right to choose what you want to do..its got nothing to do with being old fashioned. sentimental or anything else, just means you have a high sense of morality, pity theres not more like you..nothing wrong with the other your doing either.. Good luck
2006-09-03 10:47:44 · answer #9 · answered by Sunseaandair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think right now you should think about school and not having a g/f. Plus you can't always find the right girl. I am glad that your parents raised you right to become an old fashioned, and when you meet that right one you will know. It just takes time.
2006-09-11 00:12:10 · answer #10 · answered by moodyblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋