i am working in dubai.my residensy in india.she is angry with me beacuse i am not able to talk with her on phone.money reasons
2006-09-03 02:31:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
tell her that you will try to make thing where you can call her a set number of times and then maybe that would help
2006-09-03 02:35:41 · answer #1 · answered by southern angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she have a computer? Write love e-mails..talk to her about what is going on in your life, and about your future together. She has to understand that long-long distance phone calls are very costly. Doing a residency is a lot of hours and hard work, and she should be a little understanding that you have to concentrate on that right now. It's not you don't love her, and that she is the most important thing in your life, but you are doing this for her future too. Just think about all the calls you can make when you start making the big bucks! Just be patient with her, and tell her honestly honey, I would stay on the phone with you 24-7 but I just can't. You figure out how many times you can call in a week, and give her a time when she can call you. Does she work, could she afford to make a call every once in awhile? I mean if you are getting married, it's ok for her to call you.
Don't feel awful about this! If you are doing the best you can, then there isn't anything else you can do. Unless, you drop out and come home, and I would hate to see you do that. See if you can find a different phone service that doesn't cost a arm and a leg. Don't hear a card in the mail a couple of times in the week, and make will make her not so lonely! It will be a very nice surprise, and help her.
Good luck with the residency and the up coming wedding. I pray that she will find the strength to deal with you having to be apart for now......
God bless us all..............
2006-09-03 05:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen man womens r just like flower as they get the wind they lose their control and normally they remain good to u.So dear just make her realise that u r having problem with money and the that ur saving is for her only.This should be done in a hidden way like when u meet her just give her some of her favourite item that she liked the most ,this will let her know that u r doing something for her only.Try to visit her rarely and let her know the importance of urs in her life and moreover don't leave her just let her know that she is as important in ur life as the air required for breathing.So best of luck dear..........
2006-09-03 02:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by cold_cyclone_rkl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to deal with any problem is communicate .your wife is probabaly a bit insecure and u need to be more patient and make her understand that you still love her and y u are unable to keep in touch .
persistence pays so dont loose your cool and try your best . im sure everything will be sorted out. try calling her sometimes if possible .
2006-09-03 02:48:52 · answer #4 · answered by ruchi p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stand in front of the house with a big card writtten on it SORRY
if u cant spend money, then go and give warm hug - jaadu ki jhappi
2006-09-03 02:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by rohan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should to make her feel u save money for her and to make her life more better, u should to use your mind when u talk with her and try to image if u in her place what is words u want to hear
2006-09-03 02:38:54 · answer #6 · answered by sea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking with her for 1 week and you will be sure she will looking for you like the end of the world.
2006-09-03 02:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a sweet gift n tell her that u love her very much!
she'll get merry n forgive u> simple!
2006-09-03 02:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her sweet email or best thing is u chat with her
2006-09-07 00:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have patience ...will be fine soon !!
2006-09-06 04:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋