He smells fine at the beginning of a date, but as the night goes on, he starts to stink. It's like his deoderant wears off and he doesn't know it. I'm finding myself leaving his place in the middle of the night so I can take a shower at my place so I can wash off his stench. And when he spend the night at my place, I would wash my bed sheets, clean and spray my place like a crazy person. I like him but I can't keep doing this. He is great otherwise.
I will have to stop seeing him, I can't do BO. please help
2006-09-03 02:12:35 · 14 answers · asked by nphillygirl 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Give him a Hallmark get well card together with a men's giftpack of deoderant, bath & shower gel. Sign the card something like this:
You smell like a goon
Hope you smell better soon
2006-09-03 02:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by Funny Frankie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK here it is, if you really care about this person then honesty is the best policy. You may ask him if he realizes this happening as the hours go by. You may suggest he try a stronger deodorant or different type. Body odor can be from different souces. One is diet, the type of soap used when bathing. Try a stronger deoderant soap. Another is he may be ill and not know it, this can be a sign of health issues. There are natural harmless herbs you can eat to aid in controlling body odor. Clean your whole body inside with a colon cleanse and eat a good balanced diet fresh fruits and vegetables. He may try some odorless garlic capsules this is a very effective way to aid in body odor. Do some research online. Good luck.
2006-09-03 09:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by traveler 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd just sit him down and explain the problem. Most guys you can just tell them that they stink and we understand. Its only the girls that often take offence to being told that (I just don't understand. :). j/k.
Sadly it might not be a problem that can be resolved, some people have extreamly bad BO problems and if that his case and it doesn't matter the deoderant he uses he might want to see a doctor. At the very least encourage him to reuse his deoderant or take a shower before and or after any night time activities.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-03 09:25:49 · answer #3 · answered by Gary Bucht 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you like him be honest and tell him... there are several ways he can improve this situation.. it maybe the top he is wearing if there is nylon in it, he maybe have a lot of undr arm hair that he could shave and remember some deoderants work better on some people than others. Maybe you could approach it by politely asking if he forgot to put on deoderant tonight or as i did with a colleague say some one else has complained about the odor but reassure him how much you like him
2006-09-03 09:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by Paul I 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He may not be using ANY deodorant. Maybe he has some kind of problem. Look if you are over there sleeping with him, staying the night. You should be close enough to him to be like "look I just want you to know that you start to smell like BO a few hours after were together. its not bad or anything, but maybe you need to start using a different deodorant"
sadly there is no nice way of saying this.
2006-09-03 09:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by Bistro 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi. Get him crystal salt from any pharmarcy. It's absolutely effective against bad BO. I had a similar problem with a male colleague I had to work closely with. Also, advise him to shower often, watch what he eats especially fatty foods, no *heavy* activities in the night and well, let's see if it works for him. Good luck!
Kelly
2006-09-03 09:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
That's too bad, because there's nothing more DISGUSTING than deoderant and heavy perfumes. I suggest you pull your head out of your ignorant American *** and realize that body odor is natural, healthy, and for most women it's a big turn-on! If you want your little boytoys to smell like teen spirit, I suggest you buy a little dollie and spray her down with your favorite perfumes and sleep with it. There's far better women than you that aren't afraid of a man's scent, so your boyfriend has options.
2006-09-03 09:17:01 · answer #7 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Just don't tell him. Buy him a gift bag with stuff that you have bought and put together. Body spray, shower gel, deodarant, and chocoaltes. (The chocolates to throw him off so he won't know what you are doing.
2006-09-03 09:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by actresst22 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Get a new boyfriend. Is this Angelina Jolie??
2006-09-03 10:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by SUEZETTE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him : Dear....I believe your deodorant has just expired. I assume you'd like to take care of it right away.
2006-09-03 09:25:48 · answer #10 · answered by cb56br 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋