im a college student but im not happy with the field which im in and im on the half way now ,and i like almost everything ( science and literature fields)nothing specific,,im confused now i dont know what to do should i complete and be unhappy or should i quit and be a loser ......what would u do if u were in my shoes.....im really confused....i dont know what i want...im suffering....
2006-09-03 01:43:12 · 21 answers · asked by ink 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
well, maybe you should finish what you've started, and then make a master's degree in some other field, which you're more interested in .... this would also give you more time to decide what it is that you really want/you're really interested in
2006-09-03 01:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by smilingcat 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're not a loser because you quit !
You have to make your decision !
Do you want to stay in that field and be more unhappy everyday or start something else and be happy ?
Don't focus on the years you've done so far and have to start something from the beginning again, and don't ever think those years are wasted cause it's not true !
It's important to do something you enjoy, something you like !
I think you should change otherwise you'll never be happy, you'll get a job in that field and then what ? Ask yourself every morning if you shouldn't call them saying you're sick so you don't go to work ? it's not a life !
Start something new, something you really enjoy and be happy !
And if someone ever calls you a loser don't ever listen to them, they are the losers not you, you're strong enough to make your own decision, you're smart, not lazy compared to them as you have the courage to start something else ! And don't let any one influence you ! It's YOUR life !
Hope this helps a bit !
2006-09-10 20:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by BleedingAngelSecretWounds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, run to the best teacher you know, and ask for their recommendation for on campus guidance counselors.
You have a right to question your future, and your choices.
Unhappiness is not a reason to quit....it is a reason to make or seek a change.
You are not a loser. You are just plain confused....you will find a way to get the choices you need by asking the college for help, and the more you ask, the more answers you will get.
Why not see if other courses are more exciting, or if you add just 1 course out of your field, see how you do, don't worry,
change is good!
I think you will be great....I just think the medical field has.....something 4 you....I don't know why.
Best of luck and you are not a quiter!
2006-09-07 16:35:58 · answer #3 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Speak to your College Professor, ask him/her if there is a possibility of you changing into another field that you would be more interested in. Maybe a similar field that you could get credits for the study you have already completed. You need to talk to the campus counsellor, they are very experienced with this particular type of problem. There are several options, you are only looking at 2....completing something you dont enjoy or giving up. You are not a loser, if you give up, but you need to look at other options first before you make your decision......Go talk to the Campus Counsellor and find out what your options are.
Good luck in whatever you decide to do.
2006-09-08 10:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like maybe you need a vacation, or some kind of a hobby, something to occupy your mind at least some of the time. It's not always a loser when you don't finish something you start, but if that's how you truly see it, by all means don't quit. After getting half way to graduation, it would be a shame to just walk away from it, however, what you want in your heart says something, too
2006-09-08 17:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by charlies mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stop, keeping your mind focus on the finish line. And if need be you can go back and take a few other classes to be what ever it is you want. If I could go back and re route my road I would have gone to college like yourself instead of spending lots of money on a business school that wasn't near worth what I'm paying for now. If you can change your major now, I'm sure that would be better since your so unhappy, Just dont Quit!
2006-09-09 21:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by Starla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are options besides complete the work and be unhappy or quit and be a loser. Complete your studies in an area that suits you most. If you are unsure of what this area is, ask a friend who knows you well and is willing to tell you the truth whether you like it or not. You may be denying in your mind what it is that you want to do, but your friend(s) can see through your denial by watching your actions.
2006-09-09 04:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Felt the same way as you in college. I did finish at the time, and I never used my degree. I wish now I had taken a semester off, and tried to figure out who I was and what I wanted even if it took moving, going to a therapist, or anything. I think by not doing that I have set myself up for depression here 10 years later.
2006-09-03 02:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by catzrme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, finish out your schooling so it won't be a total waste. Try out the field for a few months or so, you actually might turn out to like it. If you don't like it, find something you are happy with, and if it is something totally rediculous, which it probably isn't to you, you know you always have something to fall upon, if you don't reach your dream. Good Luck!!!!
2006-09-08 15:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Infatuated♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have plenty of time to regret the path you chose right now when you are paying back your student loans. For right now, find a field you like and get out of the one you are in.
2006-09-08 15:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish what you got pay off what you've learned then go back and take what you like more while you work in the field that payed off the last education. But by all means do not give up your education.
2006-09-08 12:18:11 · answer #11 · answered by forgetmaenot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋