Theres this guy that I like and I give him whateva he needs. If he is in need of a good meal, I give it to him and if he is in need of a couple of quarters, I give it to him. I never volunteered on my own to give him anything. Except, I took him out. I dont want to feel like, i am trying to buy him. Bc some men think that women are buying them. I help him out bc he is always in need. We both are seniors in college, so this semester he is not able to work bc it is hard to work a job and school around his schedule, but I work. I dont think he is using me bc he keeps telling me thanks for all I do and he has a mind of repaying me. And is anything wrong with this?
2006-09-03 01:28:11 · 7 answers · asked by Hope 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's good.
Now make him repay you by giving you oral.
2006-09-03 01:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you just like the guy he's not even your bf not that that would make it better. but what he is doing is wrong. if it where once in a blue moon and you were the one offering fine but this sounds like it's on a regular basis. just because you like him doesn't mean you have to buy him everything. trust me us guy's are usualy in this situation. but most of us learn. i hope you do to. and if he does like you, your company should be enough. good luck
2006-09-03 01:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Orselo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop giving to him see if he still sticks around. It has to be just as hard for you to work as it is for him. There is always 3rd shift which I work and am also in school.
2006-09-03 01:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by smooches986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is working you plain and simple !! i wish you were my girlfriend ! ask yourself one question....what do you do for money and what does he do for money? you have a job...he doesnt? he needs to suck it up and get one !!!
2006-09-03 01:35:50 · answer #4 · answered by rickblck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think hes misusing u. try not giving him money. if he shows indifference,....... u know what to do.
2006-09-03 01:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by jeo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you know the answer..........
2006-09-03 01:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by kirby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are making yourself into a doormat for a few words of thanks, sad situation.
2006-09-03 01:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋