My girlfriend told me last night that she's not sure how she feels about me. She doesn't know if she still loves me as a boyfriend. Is there anything I can do to make her feel like we should be together? I've already told her how I feel but she's just worried that she doesn't love me, but is also afraid to break up, if it turns out she does. Help! I'm stuck in an in-between world.
2006-09-03 01:15:54 · 20 answers · asked by nicholas_fahrenkopf 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't. Find another girl. Move on with your life.
2006-09-03 01:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is no reason for you to be stuck in the in between worlds. I know your confused and hurt and later on you'll be angry..But stuff like this happens. I know a lot of people will tell you to move on..And they are right. You should. You deserve better. Take baby steps...ONe day at a time..then one day you'll meet a great gal who will be sure how she feels about you. I know the urge to call her and try to convince her is lurking inside you. Go out and have fun with your family and friends. Give her this day to think it over. call her the next day and ask her if she really means it.who knows, she might change her mind:) Good Luck!!!
2006-09-03 08:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is probably she got some feelings for other guys.
Sometimes in peoples' lives they feel attractive to someone, but they are already in a relationship.
1. Tell her that if she is not sure, then say you want to be friends for a few weeks or months and then ask her out again.
2. Just dump her, she would probably like that too cuz she is probably got a lot in her mind.
2006-09-03 08:23:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a power play she is trying to put you in defense, tell you feel the same and want to take a few weeks off from the relationship, that should turn things around.
2006-09-03 08:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Steven E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sorry to hear that.i dont think you can do anything really.just let her know how you feel.about her and keep it real.theres no way you can force her just chill out im sure everything happens for a reason.if she does break it off, no one dies of a broken heart....youl be okay and meet someone who loves you way more.i think you need to igve her space too...my bf used to call myconstantly and literally was in my face all day every day and i got annoyed and said i dnt wana be with you...well then he didtn call me for a few days and you know what thatshurt,.
i started to miss him...all the things he did and thr wya he was...you miss someones once theyve gone so try not to be in her face just give her time to miss you,
if its meant to be it will.....
2006-09-03 08:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you can't make a girl stay with you just except it that it wasn't meant to be. this is the most important part just make sure you at least pretend to be friends during the break-up. you also have to except the fact that she's gonna be dating other men that you might actually meet. so be nice, pretend to care, and go get another piece of @$$!!
2006-09-03 08:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already told her how you feel. So just give her some space and let her decde on her own. Anyways if she chose to leave, do you really want to be with someone who don't love you?
2006-09-03 08:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look.... ive been through this a million times....just walk away and find another one! you get all these mushy answers by people and it will confuse you more. the reason she has told you this, is she has her eye on someone or she already has someone else. dont be weak! walk away !!! if it were meant to be,she'll be back !!!
2006-09-03 08:29:41 · answer #8 · answered by rickblck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she isnt sure now, how will she feel in 6 months? A year? Who knows, maybe she is seeing someone else. Get yer worm, go back to the dock and go fishin.........
2006-09-03 08:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by Jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it's hard but you need to let her go, there is a saying that's very true if you love something set it free if it comes back it's yours, if it dont it never was. really you cannot make someone love you.
2006-09-03 08:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by howie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg.. stop tell me that! i feel the same way as u now too.. i really love my bf but my bf now is getting really weird and he even told me that he is kinda bored of me. >.< but well, all u have to do is that, ask her what she need u to do for her right now. tell her how much she mean to u. good luck to u and to me too >.<
2006-09-03 08:18:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋