I'd been dating this guy for over a year, we were never a couple. We just went to movies, Great America, and did stuff that a couple would do. Well I broke the friendship off a couple weeks ago because he didn't want to committ to me and I couldn't handle it because I am a sensitive person and can't stand the thought that he talks to other women. Well I live exactly accross from him and last night he brought a woman over his house and she spent the night. Let me tell you that he knew I was home and saw me looking out my door as she came over. And I will tell you that he KNOWS I love him. I have never hurt him or betrayed him during our friendship. I remained calm while she was at his house. I didn't call or ring his doorbell or yell stupid remarks accross to him. What would you have done if you saw someone you loved bring a woman over knowing you were looking.
2006-09-03 01:15:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you are hurt, angry, upset and all other kinds of emotions you are feeling. However you really have no right to be. (if that makes any sense). You did break up with him, he did tell you that he couldnt commit to you. You needed that committment in your life and it just didnt work out. He has moved on.. (which is a bit too soon in my opinion) and as much as all this has hurt you, you need to do the same. You love him, he obviously didnt love you or else he would have committed to you and not done these hurtful things so very soon after the breakup. Yes I would be hurt, angry, furious, but your hands are tied. You have no grounds. I would suggest to let it go, move on with your life. You do state that you needed committment in your life and best thing to do is begin the search. He is not the committing type obviously. Consider all of this his loss and good luck!
2006-09-03 01:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You broke the friendship off. Live on.
2006-09-03 08:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by AJK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you say your a sensitive person at least you kept your dignity and stayed cool.
As for him, he didn't want to commit to you, he likes talking to other woman?He ain't gonna commit to anyone
2006-09-03 09:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aargh! lt's quite difficult to endure that kind of situations, my suggestion would be there are plenty of fish in the sea. Life doesnt end untill u live it!
2006-09-03 08:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by -Vladimir- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go find a better man, bring him into your house while hes looking that will sweet revenge
2006-09-03 08:19:51 · answer #5 · answered by ad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would write him off. Nobody who cared for you would pull a stunt like that.
2006-09-03 08:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by mikebrennan_us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not the right guy for you.. forget about him..difficult to do it but the only right thing to do
2006-09-03 08:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by tenderpinklady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the same thing.bring a guy to your hauz.
2006-09-03 08:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by pahlabooylabooy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call me ill come round and make him jealous xxxx
2006-09-03 08:32:34 · answer #9 · answered by robcostabrava@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok its time to just go checking out the other guys, he just wants sex. forget him.
2006-09-03 08:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋