I am just like around 13 or 14.
Yesterday i went over to my GF house and we had a lot of fun and stuff, just playing and talking. The day before we were on the phone for like 3 hours or something.
But then today she never reply my messages (SMS), i asked a friend and he said that she is SMS him right now.
1 week ago this girl on the bus, who was a friend of my GF, told me that during one of her party. My GF told her that she doesn't like me, but she like this other dude, who is like 2 grades higher. The dude is like my friend, and the dude told me my GF and him r just pretending to be brother and sister. I ask my GF one day if she like the dude, but she said the dude and her are just pretended bro and sis.
I also ask the dude if she is busy, but he said he is SMS my GF right now.
I wonder if my the girl is playing with me or something. Or maybe she is just a cold hearted person who wanna date a bunch of guys. I dont know.
SO pls help me
S.O.S
2006-09-03 01:05:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okie i am 13, but in a few months i am 14. YAY survive 1 more year as a teen.
2006-09-03 01:17:50 · update #1
You are like 13 or 14? You don't know how old you are, yet you ask a question such as this?
2006-09-03 01:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by not_prfikt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are attaining the the age of adolescence and all of us know how difficult to explain the actual face of life at this age.
You are complicating the situation yourself. You wrote your GF told another of her friend that she doesn't like you. Why not ask her directly. We are generally misleaded by the third person entry. If your GF didn't reply to your phone or SMS does not mean she dislike you. You already asked her if she like that dude or not and she replied that she and the dude are bro & sis. This is very clear that she naver told you that she does not like you. Even if she does that too, do not think she is the only friend you have. The whole world is open to you.
Just behave a little bit maturely. Try to analyse any situation from the opposite angle too. Always think you are not lone person who is facing this type of problems.
2006-09-03 08:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Dipak B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the girl is playing with you. She is 13/14 after all and really wants to see what her options are. I think the best way to handle this is ask her if she really wants to be your gf or not..if she does not give you a straight forward answer then I am right. Concentrate on your studies and who knows a few weeks, months, years from now you'll meet the right person.
2006-09-03 08:11:51 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her flat out what you want to know and what you heard. Be straight to get staight answers back. She'll respect you for it too. And if she is playing you then forget her. She is not worth it and you will find someone better who will treat you better.
Sounds like you guys are in highschool- and a lot of the time then the nice guy finishes last.. but stay the way you are becasue when girls coem to their senses, those are the ones they remember as being the nice guy and those are the ones they end up marrying or dating long term later on. Trust me I married a nice guy who talked just of that. :) Good luck sweetie. And just try to enjoy the school life!!
2006-09-03 08:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is sms? i sure wish everyone spoke english especially american teens. she should date a lot of different guys, everyone should see a variety of people, there are too many kids who get way to personal with one person way to young, and they have no idea what other people are like, no wonder there are so many divorces.
2006-09-03 08:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds quite suspecting but don't worry,if she doesn't like u then move on.Don't waste your time on her playing around behind you,there are many girls out there who are much better than her
2006-09-03 08:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try re-proposing and if it dosent work out just forget her
2006-09-03 08:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Parjanya Roy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok man she might be playing you just act cool but if stuff gets out of hand talk to her and stuff if not just talk to her and the last chois is to............brake up
2006-09-03 08:09:17 · answer #8 · answered by brett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but i agree with the other guy to hard to follow your all over theplace kid
2006-09-03 08:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by jedjgri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, too much to read.
2006-09-03 08:06:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋