At the same time, can you help me find ways to deal with my biased parents as well?
**Note: This question is for people who have experieced it.
2006-09-03 00:39:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if she is copying your style, it means she looks up to you. let her copy your style and take it as a compliment. since she does look up to you, maybe you can stop her crying to get her way by telling her you think it's not cool. don't use her as an example though, say it's your friends younger brother who uses this ploy to get his way, and how you think it makes him look phoney.
2006-09-03 00:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Debi K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as "the younger sis", I thought my older sister was THE GREATEST! That's why I wanted to be like her!!
No way did I ever tell her that! haha She was annoyed just like you. It would have meant the world to me if she would have helped me and realized I wanted to be like her.
Copying someone is the ultimate compliment. It would change her life if you could find it in your heart to help her find her own styles. Go shopping and help her find her own style.
Someday you are going to be best friends. Realize she is a fan of yours and be flattered. I'm sure you are terrific!
2006-09-03 07:45:50 · answer #2 · answered by M C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have 9 sisters (im #3) so i have 7 lil sisters. they all want to copy the ways of us older ones. so, i thought of a way to steer them away from our style. if you wear a ponytail for example, and she asks you to do her hair give her pig tails, and make sure the others compliment her on how they lovve her pigtails. or help her pick out clothes that aren't like yours, and again, compliment her style and tell her how much u love it. and for the crying part, good luck my sisters dont generally cry (ages 15-2)
2006-09-03 10:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by soccer_chika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go about your business.
If your sis is crying for attention she probably needs it. Lets your parents give it to her.
Feel flattered that your lil sister wants to be like you. Teach her good things.
2006-09-03 07:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that you ignore the fact that she's crying and that she's copying your style.
The fact that you know she's trying to get your parent's attention doesn't mean you have to follow her in doing so.
Be yourself and if you find it flattering that she's copying you then you'll be happier.
2006-09-03 07:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by michael2003c2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you should gonna some school they're will be teach you some new stuff that is may be help you handle younger any way don't care about you will learnd it will or not the key is through the learn to find your still young and can learnd some thing around you . may Allah bless us .
2006-09-03 07:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Abdumalik A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is crying to you then you have to be supportive and help your parents understand that she is upset and why she is turning to you for help. Some parents don't realise they are treating their children differently. Most of all don't judge her for trying to be like you she thinks that is what your parents want.
2006-09-03 07:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by Mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your parents know. the best way to it is to live with it in do time she will stop
2006-09-03 07:42:23 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your mom abot it your sister is younger put up with it
2006-09-03 07:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will outgrow it!
2006-09-03 07:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋