if you are dating two girls but you are not in a relationship, are you still concidered a player?
2006-09-03 00:10:05 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you are being a young man dating. Good grief! If asking for a date with someone you may want to get to know better constitutes a relationship, no wonder there is so many lonely people. Dating is what you do to find someone who interests you, that you may want to get to know better! Enjoy it, and ask out as many girls as you care to know. Seriously, it is the smart thing to do.
2006-09-03 07:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by rascal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all-If you don't consider it a relationship-then don't consider it dating-Girls are different then guys, remember-We do believe dating is a form of a relationship-So in that case- you can be mislabeled a player-But- if you consider the two girls-"friends"---- then perhaps you can be exempt from being in the typical "relationship". After all-I'm sure you have male friends you hang out with-and certainly you wouldn't consider that dating. So if you don't want to be considered a player-I would suggest you just think of those two girls as being--"Two of the guys"--Good luck
2006-09-03 01:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Marie I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're dating only two girls and want to know if you're a player? Dude, the player's club starts with a minimum 5 girls on the string. Under 3 is considered amateur.
Don't worry, though. You have a good start. Just keep the names straight and you're doing good.
2006-09-03 05:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would that make you a player? You'd better believe the girls have more going on than they'd like you to know about, maybe that's why it's called the dating game. Unless you have a commitment,you are a free agent ,from my experience you should get to know all the girls you can in order to make a choice someday as to the one to possibly settle down with . Just make sure you're honest.
2006-09-03 04:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by blindogben 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your just going out on dates but no relationship your a player but not cheating.... its always good to have a backup since a lot of the time girls will make it hard for ya to get to that next level.
2006-09-03 04:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by korn_issues_29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider you are player as long as you are honest about it to everyone. There is no need to be in a relationship with one person until you see all the qualities you want in a woman. I personally think variety is good until you start to sleep with someone, then it's time to settle down and stop dating others.
2006-09-03 02:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by DispatchGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that depends on whose interpretation of ‘not in a relationship’ you are referring to.
If you and the girls that you are dating all agree that there is not a relationship, then you are not considered to a player.
If on the other hand, either of those girls believes they are in a relationship with you, then you could and should be seen as a player, especially if the girl is not aware that you are dating the other!!!
2006-09-03 00:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are a player till they catch you then your done you will be black balled. No girl will mess with you because they think you are a player and after one thing from them. So date the one you like the most and dump the other!!!!!!
2006-09-03 03:17:31 · answer #8 · answered by daddycoop74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends - if ya'll are just going out and doing activities then no you are not a player.
If you are getting a physical relationship from both then yes you are a player.
2006-09-03 02:13:15 · answer #9 · answered by Applecore782 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - that's one of the main descriptions of a player. Sorry. But if it looks, acts, and walks like a Duck, then it's a Duck.
2006-09-03 00:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by CuriousGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋