Hm... I like one boy and I wanna be together... How I can do this?
2006-09-03 00:07:38 · 10 answers · asked by banana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make sure to hang out in places where you know you will see the guy you have a crush on. This could be at the mall, the movies, or maybe at the baseball field if he's an athlete. Walk up to him slowly and introduce yourself. Many guys are too afraid to walk up to a girl. If he is friendly to you back, you can keep on talking to him.
Make eye contact with him. If he makes eye contact back for five seconds and twice or more, he's probably interested too. Make sure he's not looking at you because you're doing something extremely weird or he is the cashier.
When you have the opportunity, talk to him or his friends and find out if he has a girlfriend.
Commence flirting. This can mean thing such as touching him lightly on the arm, or laughing at his jokes. Sometimes, you can flirt from afar and entice him to come over to you.
Ask him what kind of things he likes to do, such as what he likes to eat, if he likes to play sports, or if he's a movie lover. Once you find something you both have in common, ask if he'd like to do it together sometime.
If he says no, or seems like he needs more time, don't get too upset; always say you can just be friends if that's what he wants.
Chances are, he'll change his mind. Guys do this a lot. Whatever you do, don't trash him to others; it makes you look bad.
If he says yes, then plan where and when you will go out, and don't forget to have fun. Since you asked, you should pay for the date, unless he insists.
Tips
On the day you plan to ask the guy out, make sure to wear an outfit that gives you confidence. This will make you much more comfortable and give you the courage to make your move.
Try not to be too nervous...guys love being asked out, since they're the ones usually doing all the work in these situations.
Ask him about himself, and act like you're genuinely interested.
Don't assume that he's less of a man just because he didn't make the first move. He might be shy, or think that you're "out of his league", or taken.
Always smile, it shows that you're confident.
While you are asking him, don't do it like an interview, try to ask smoothly with sentences that are connected to each other.
Since you're being a non traditional woman, you may want to consider a non traditional date. Many if not most guys would appreciate a hiking trip, swim and sauna, sports event, or video game showdown as a first date. Sometimes competitive and/or physical activities get a man's blood flowing.
If you have some money to spend try buying some "pheromones". Your body produces these naturally and it is a, for the most part, unnoticeable scent. Many guys who have liked a women who have worn this, didn’t know why they liked her, they “Just did”. These "pheromones" are proven to attract guys. Note: If you buy them make sure they are for women, not to attract women.
Warnings
Some girls try to get guys to ask them out by making them jealous or playing hard to get. This can backfire because the guy could give up, or get annoyed by your tactics. The best approach is to be honest and straightforward about your feelings.
Don't be too aggressive. Assertiveness is attractive, but hostility is not.
Even if you have asked a guy out, it does not mean you are obligated to do anything you don't want to on the date. If you ever feel uncomfortable, get out of the situation right away.
If he's "famous" amongst your friends, don't brag about him getting your number. Bragging is a turn-off.
Some guys already have a girlfriend, or are still getting over a breakup, so try not to ask while he is still in a sensitive mood.
Don't just ask a guy out so that you can have a boyfriend. Find a guy you really, truly like.
2006-09-03 00:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get a net specifically designed for that purpose.
2006-09-03 07:08:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The proper net is the right answer
2006-09-03 07:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak up don't be shy say "Hi," be flirtatious, laugh, get him smiling, shock him with the vibe that says "I want you deep inside." Peace.
2006-09-03 07:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you like him, and he might want to catch you instead.
2006-09-03 07:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus say we need 2 talk privatly and wen u get him in private tell him take i will do da same and say lets have sex and wen ur done kiss him.
2006-09-03 08:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by TRINIMANTT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with you chasing me i would just lay down
2006-09-03 07:09:49 · answer #7 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eat your weaties and run him down
2006-09-03 07:10:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
catch me if u can ... parjanyaroy@gmail.com
2006-09-03 07:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by Parjanya Roy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come with me
2006-09-03 07:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by guullii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋