So I met this girl...very smart (not physically my type), but we made out. Then we stay in contact and we met up for drinks and made out again. I know her rep. is about non monogamy. however, i'm more and more intrigued by her and who she is beyone the making out. I do find her attractive physically and mentally. She wants to hook up with me and made it clear she wants to have sex. I'm just not sure where I am on this. Can I be emotionally detached from her or should I just it be and not give in to temptation?
2006-09-02 23:45:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are only two kinds of men that refuse sex with attractive women..they are 1)married 2)f a g s
which one are you?
2006-09-02 23:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she thinks that is what YOU want. Maybe she thinks you are the one that wants the sex with no strings, so she suggested it first..... I think you should hold out and show her how a REAL man courts a woman, Ask her out on a few dates, show her a good time, get to know her and if you still feel the same way about her, you should tell her how you feel about her and that You would like her to take you more seriously. Maybe try being exclusive before jumping in the sack see what she says.. if she is truely just about haveing free sex and you already have some feelings for her or you are "intrigued" by her, then maybe you should pass on the free sex thing... after all .. nothing in life is REALLY free.. it comes with a price.
2006-09-03 06:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know much about you +her, and your briefing is rather incomplete to me!
Anyway...if your uncertain about it, just....flip the coin!
Ciao.John-John.
2006-09-03 06:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by John-John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she doesn't want you anymore. she wants me now. she is mine
2006-09-03 06:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋