ive met this guy each time were together we are in a drinking atmosphere, on two occasions hes asked me to stay at his house with him. i did we never had sex only oral on me. he nvr got an erection with me and i thought it was becoz he didnt like me he said it wasnt me it was just him from the alcohol so lastnite i got drunk ended up caling him up early mornin hrs he drove 20 min. to come see me he tried to have sex and once again wanted me to stay with him .he wasnt drinkin as was i so i start asking him if he only sees me as a piece of ***. he said no then i ask him if he wants anything serious with me just to see were we stood.nothin more or less, he says his heart got broken and he just wants to be by himself, i know he likes me because he didnt have to be drunk to get with me that time. but waht im wonderin is after i asked him about relationships as in were we stood suddenly he says les just be friends. does that mean it stays the same with us hookin up and having sex still or no
2006-09-02 23:26:03 · 6 answers · asked by ninanite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
these r not the answers i want. my question is why did he say just be friends? does it mean things will still be the same with us hooking up or does the sex stop and we become friends without the sex?
2006-09-02 23:39:28 · update #1
See that's the things about girls these days that pisses me off. You have sex first then ask whether you want to date or not. How about going on dates and then later having sex. You girls complain too much that guys treat you this way. Understand first then have sex.
2006-09-02 23:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by ShellShock Vet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should prob move on and find someone new but next time don't have sex then find out where their head is at!!!!! Know what you want from a person and find out what they want from you before you have sex. Other wise all your going to end up with is a very long list of ppl you have had sex with!!!
2006-09-02 23:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep him then find out about his real sex problem and solve it. If it is physical then introduce him to Viagra or Cialis and extend his telescope to make him see stars in the broad daylight. If you're not up to it then just dump him in your garbage can.
2006-09-02 23:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like some one so rich here have not any economic broblme so just keep going and try to get more knowing eachother may be your will be to gether may be not the key is your enjoy to gether is well that is human in this world so happy every day !
2006-09-02 23:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Abdumalik A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check for another girl being with him ; cut down on him and see his reactions ; anyway I'd encourage you to look for another more dicent guy, beyond alcoholic-drug environ!
Life's full of good guys, only you must seek them! Hunt them up!
Ciao........John-John.
2006-09-02 23:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by John-John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you'll pardon my saying so, this is all well within the realm of insanity.
2006-09-02 23:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋