Why Mohamod not allowed Ali to marry in the life of Fatima ?

Question

This incident is well mentioned in all authentic muslim books..When Fatima was suffering from serious disease,Ali asked the permission of Prophet Mohamod to maary ,but Mohamod not only got angry but stop taking to Ali.Finally Ali asked for forgiveness and promised not to marry in Fatima,s life time.MOhamod said toAli that you want to bring a woman on my daughter,how come.THe man who himself kept on bringing woman on woman not allowed his son-in-law to marry second time

Answer 1

If you know the reason, then you would not ask why.
Fatima came to Prophet Mohammed saying that Ali intends to marry the daughter of Abu Lahab who was the enemy of Prophet Mohammed . When you look at Hadith 3729 & hadith 5230 from Sahih Bukhari ; it is clear that she was upset because Ali wanted to marry the daughter of her father's enemy, not because he wanted to marry another woman.
Therefore prophet Mohammed as a father of Fatima did not like to hurt her, he considered her as part of himself. He said that whatever hurts her will hurt me. This is a normal feeling in a father. Therefore, he said that his daughter and the daughter of his enemy could not live in one house. Either that Ali has to divorce Fatima and then marry the other one or he can marry any other woman other than this one.
Ali could have married the other woman who is the daughter of prophet's enemy once he divorces Fatima.
Or he could have married any other woman and also keep his wife Fatima.
So this clearly shows that Prophet did not prohibit Ali from marrying the daughter of his enemy, nor did he prohibit Ali from marrying other women. It was just his concern for his daughter's feeling which a father would feel normally.
Allah knows better

Answer 2

Priestly celibacy became presented some thousand years in the past through fact of perceived issues and to make clergymen extra dedicated to the church. The Catholic Church now has a recruitment disaster through fact the requirement places the traditional youthful Catholic guy off. although, there are a number of clergy in different church homes who've been discovered to be sexual predators. The Catholic Church is maximum criticised through fact of ways it dealt with it. Catholic doctrine potential that the church can not ever be considered to be incorrect so as that they coated it up. Now that the conceal-up has been discovered it fairly is caught them, as they say, a precise ding around the ear. different church homes are extra open and dealt with it precise on the time.

Answer 3

perhaps to keep the disease from spreading to others but then again your words say girl on girl now they might be merry for a while but their periodical merryment would result in a (mar-red) relationship as they could not reproduce children so the prophet tell the ali not to marry but rather to merry,yet what do you mean to bring a woman on the daughter? i dont quite recall that in the fa ti ma ie for tha ma

Answer 4

Dear god sir..i think u got the whole idea wrong. Prophet Muhammad s.aw. did not marry out of lust but he married because he wanted to help the widows in a sense of to support their economies, their families etc..
Bare in mind..when Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. married to his 1st wife, siti Khadijah, did he marry more than 1 during that time? No, he didn't remarry..until she passed away..he loyal to her until end of her day..dont make such a remark, if u didn't study or read more about Prophet Muhammad..i m not say that i have studied all but then i m still improving myself in this matter..wassalam.

Respect other people faith, norms and values..being ignorance will not make thing better..but worsen it..accept people difference with open arms, as we want others to do the same to us. worLd PeaCe

Answer 5

It is not just a silly Question but a big lie. If it is mentioned in all authentic books show us your references and next time check before you fabricate. It is sad that you don't find major subjects in Islam to criticize if any then you come to very silly subjects to waste the time of others. What is the benefit of your question!?

Answer 6

bos ya 3am el 7ag ana a2ollak!
Prophet Muhammad (BPUH) DIDN'T prevent this.....
Ali wanted to get marry another women who was a daughter
to one of the worst enemies of prophet Muhammad so he got
angry.. But he made him choose between his daughter OR
the other woman
In the Islamic law a wife has the right to ask for divorce if her husband married another woman.so there wasn't any Exception!

w sallemly 3ala Michel Munir ykonsh enta??

Answer 7

The answer is very simple!
1- Muhammad (PBUH)was made by God to know that Fatimah will die before Ali and that Ali after some certain period of time will have to mary more than one women. (before Muhammad died he told Fatimah she will be the first to join him from his family which includes Ali and that realy happend)
2- Fatimah (PBUH)was the dearest and his most-loved daughter after her mother Khadeejah and Fatimah loves Ali so much and she might suffer from jealousy and other things and Muhammmad (PBUH) loves what she loves and disapproves of what she disapproves of.

Therefore, Muhammad didn't deprived Ali (PBUH) from his right to mary again but rather to wait and have some pateince.(coz God reveald to him about manythings yet to happen in his life and after his deat and among these things is that God chose that Fatimah shall die right after her father by 6months therefore Muhammad (PBUH)) was very merciful and did not want to tell Ali this sad thing about his most-beloved daughter.(Muhammad (PBUH) always contemplating and thinking about God and about the thingsGod told Him about therefore He once told his companions that "if you know what I know, You will laugh little and You will weep alot". So as a prophet he knows many things about what gona happen to his followers, companions , family, humanity and other things in the next eternal life; some of them sad and some is delightfull.

Answer 8

Maybe because "Fatima was suffering from serious disease" as you said.

Answer 9

Maybe Mohammad a bit weird.

Answer 10

OK which hadith please so that we could refer. or any passage from Quran? get me these, may be then i'll be able to answer u.

BTW, which AUTHENTIC MUSLIM BOOKS have u been reading lately? becoz for Muslims the only Authentic Book is the QURAN.

1st of all, in ISLAM , until the 1st WIFE PERMITS u to remarry, the MAN CANNOT remarry. also if the WIFE DOESNT WISH TO LIVE with her husband she has the FULL RIGHT to CLAIM for a DIVORCE on VALID reasons. in this case, hazrath Fathima-r.a did not approve of the marraige, so Muhammed-pbuh said that hazrath ali-r.a cannot remarry. if hazrath fathima would have given permission, then muhammed-pbuh would not have said that. and u should know that muhammed-pbuh was not running around his son-in-law saying dont leave my daughter, but it was the couple in turn who went to seek his advise on the matter.

do these verses sound violent to u? they do to someone who never heard of it before. READ IT AND TELL ME DOES IT SOUND VOILENT?.
34 "Do not think that I have come to bring peace upon the earth. I have come to bring not peace but the sword.
35 For I have come to set a man 'against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law;
36 and one's enemies will be those of his household.'
37 "Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me;

thinking its from Quran?. keep thinking.

there are many people who take out of context verses and hadith but on above that also change the words completely. and finally they present it as a totally different thing. heard of the game WHISPERING WORDS? (where people form circles and words are spoken in someone's ears and u know what is the final sentence, much different from the original one.) the same applies here.

if u have taken this from anti-islamic site where they quote then, please do us a favor -- get urself the original copy of Quran /Hadith and then compare it to those cited, u will see the difference.

2nd, since past 2-4 after the sahabas' generations many people started giving false hadith -- one example like abu bokra (NOT HAZRATH ABU BAKR-r.a, but abu bokra the slave boy whom muhammed-pbuh saved from being tortured by his master. but finally he started giving false witnesses in courts for money, so all his hadiths were expelled).

STILL thinking those verses ARE FROM QURAN, U ARE WRONG, ITS FROM THE BIBLE,MATTHEW 10:34 see how easy it is to make someone beleive in my words?may be this will help people like u to get to know the thruth.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VqmMdPKw378&mode=related&search=

and i remember telling u that muhammed-pbuh did not marry for lust or for his personal intentions. it was hazrath Khadija - r.a who was impressed with the loyalty and honesty of muhammed-pbuh, and kept the proposal of marraige via muhammed-pbuh's uncle Abu Talib. and let me remind u that muhammed was not poor, he was humble inspite of the fact that his uncle ABU TALIB, was the LEADER of Quraish tribe and MERCHANT.

muhammed-pbuh was 25 when he married to a 40year old widow. it was she who wanted to marry him in first place due to his absolute trust worthiness. the whole of ARAB knew that muhammed-pbuh was the mlost trust worthy man , that is why he was called -AL-AMIN.

and she was infact the first to beleive in muhammed-pbuh and God's revealtions to muhammed-pbuh.. and he did not marry someone else during the lifetime of hazrath khadijah-r.a becoz, he loved her sincerely and immensely. why should he be afraid of her when they loved each other whole-heartedly.

and why would God tell him to marry someone else when his first wife was alive. muhammed-pbuh did not marry another woman when Khajidah-r.a was alive. when he had no one to take care of their children he had to marry again. their children were: Qasim, Abdullah (Tahir or Tayyib), Zainab, Ruqaiyyah, Umm kulthum and Fatimah. if it would not have been for the children he wouldnt have married.

do u know that all his life what muhammed-pbuh ate, dates and if he was lucky then he would have milk. if there was any meat cooked, he would prefer to give it to the poor and needy than feed himself. it was muhammed-pbuh who said - no man is a beleiver until he desire for his brother what he desires for himself.

muhammed-pbuh was man of DIGNITY and was the PERFECT EXAMPLE of SIMPLICITY AND HUMBLENESS. u can read what Dalai Lama says or what M.K.Gandhi said. a person with the capacity of reasoning will know that muhammed-pbuh was RIGHTEOUS.

remember the pagans of Makkah were ready to give him everything he wanted via his uncle Abu Talib - and u must be knowing what he said --"uncle if they give the sun in my right hand and moon in my left and if they give me all the wealth, i will not lead away from the path and teachings of Allah and His command until, Allah Himself asks me to or until i die in the process of spreading His word. "

btw, ur profile says u study comparitive religions but u have never posted a question about any other faith since past one month, huh? how come will u be a good journalist if u dont compare anything? GOTCH YA.

also Allah bears witness to His muhammed-pbuh. i dont think u will gain anything by bad mouthing him. ya, may be a few words of appreciation from men but that will be of no use to u when u will face ur Lord on the Day of Judgement.

may the peace and blessings of Allah be with u and may He guide u in the right path. May Allah show His mercy on u and protect u from the Hellfire. peace be to u brother.