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it's lyk ............ i think i'm shy or something i don't talk to girls .......... but if they start i do talk to them ........ hlp me plz

2006-09-02 22:46:56 · 35 answers · asked by Zeal™ 1 in Society & Culture Etiquette

luk c ............ i talk to 1 gal .............. she's the one whom i hav a crush on ....... v boh r vry gud frnds ............. but i don talk to others gals much ...........

2006-09-02 22:52:40 · update #1

ppl i'm not talking abt the girl whom i luv .............. i'm talkin abt all the gals of my class ...............almost all the gals talk to me ......... but mostly i don rply bak .......... i jus walk away

2006-09-02 22:58:41 · update #2

35 answers

I'm Sorry To Hear That.

2006-09-02 22:48:18 · answer #1 · answered by iLL_TeK_NeekZ 4 · 1 0

Well, here is my suggestion, if you cant start a conversation or having difficulties finding the right topic to start with, maybe you can start with something less wordy like 'smile'. Try to smile to as many people in a week. They will start noticing you, trust me, the second week they'll smile back at you and sometimes, even better, they will say 'Hi' and start the conversation. This will save your time thinking on the topic. Let them do it for you...but most of all, enjoy the moment when the moment finally comes...

2006-09-09 21:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jasmine Ird 2 · 0 0

hey..im a gal..
and im tellin u dnt be shy talkin to girls i mean i no this one guy who was shy and in the next few dayz he was talkin to all the galz in his class...im saying girls are the same as men..to start a convo go up to one and say "hey" "how r u?" and pretty soon ull a convo started....and if not try to get into projects..or like concils with girls so u can talk to them get to no them..than pretty much ull be able to talk to any gal :)

2006-09-10 09:36:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Give yourself some time, obviously you are only young.....further your education and become involved in some unisexed hobby something where you find you can relate to a female , without it being on a personal term.....you could also try practicing in a mirror at home with you eyes closed or to your sister, aunt, mom.......if you fing you are able to talk to them fine , then try it with another girl, or your crush.......good luck, its a hard thing to do.

2006-09-02 23:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 1 0

As nb 109 put it, why do you write as though you're texting on a moblle? If there's a problem with with longhand typing, I think you will also have problems with your psyche, and in the way you deal with girls.

2006-09-03 00:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It's your personality, so what's the big deal?

Maybe if you furthered your education and experience then you'd have something to start up a conversation about with a girl?

2006-09-02 22:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Sorry you have this problem but I do agree With Sherrie M, suzie and Lee F Saying "hi how are you" doesn't hurt its an opener and shows you are polite.

2006-09-09 08:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by tazachusetts 4 · 0 0

I noticed that someone suggested that you try dating online.
I suggest that you don't. Not until you start typing entire words, that is.

Then again, you COULD go for one of those girls that TyPe In AlTeRnAtInG cApS fOr SoMe ReAsOn...

Nicholas
http://www.iConfessional.com

2006-09-02 22:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

hi there, you can do what you said, wait for them to talk to you, you have to talk back. do you think that they're thinking about sex already and that's why you can't look at them, or is that you, thinking about sex already. why is it that you can't speak to girls. maybe you are shy but you are smart too. girls are scared too, think about it, you're the guy, protect the girls, try to talk to them, they might be as scared. do this on your own, don't follow anybody, i've got a feeling your the type that works solo. go ahead now, try it. say hi, what's up???

2006-09-02 22:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by lee f 5 · 0 1

well people in general love one thing to talk about themselves
and girls like a good listener u my friend our golden
ur shyness will work for u girls will think u are misterious
jay

2006-09-10 19:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by morganjay2003 1 · 0 0

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