QUESTION FOR GIRLS .I am trying a new strategy, am I doing right?

Question

I met this girl last week. She is gorgeous. We made good friends on the first day we met at a class, we had coffee at the brake, had lunch that same day, and she invited me to go out to a place she told me is cool on Thursday. We went out. We had fun, a great time, we danced and on advised I did not act like a wuss, I did not tell her " ilike you" or "You are gorgeous"...not at all, we had fun but I acted as if we were just having fun, but always sexy and close towards her, touching her but subtlely. We went out again on Friday, and had fun with another couple firnds at a place . Again I did not tell anything that would make me a wuss or burn me right away. My question to girls, am I doing the right thing? I think she does like me, and I like her, but I do not want to burn myself. In the past, I burnt myself because I would jump at a woman on a first date, say corny things...will I wake up interest? or am I doing the wrong thing? What would you think were you the girl?

Answer 1

telling a girl how good she looks is never wrong.....just don't do it too much and never drool.

but you're doing right. She may not want anything serious right now and a simple "I like you" could scare her off. Let her say it first. Here's the catch: she won't do anything unless she knows the feeling is mutual. Subtle is key.

Have fun figuring out the female mind!

Answer 2

You don't want her to think you just like her as a friend do you? b/c thats the way it could be going. It's good that you didn't scare the girl off by coming on too strong but at the same time i think when you go out with her next compliment her, say she looks sexy! Girls love that and it doesn't scare them off unless they really aren't into you. It sounds like you are getting along well so keep it up but also let her know you are interested or she may think you just want to be friends. Good luck!

Answer 3

look that's a real good strategy!
that will make things real hot! u know, u'll be calm and cool and she'll be wondering what's in ur head.

but maybe later u tell her,u can't keep it inside of u forever,if u like her u should at the end tell her!

but keep on going for another couple of days or weeks! that will be awesom!
i mean u both will like it more when u both wait to hear from one another!
good luck!

Answer 4

Kinda hard to tell not being there to check out the body language, but if it's been a couple of dates with friends already maybe you should ask her out on date just the 2 of ya and see what she says. gl

Answer 5

actually honey, taking it slow is the right thing to do. If she really likes you she won't find someone else. But just don't make her wait too long. Women hate waiting, just hang forr another week or two and then pull her aside and tell her you want to start dating and you really like her

Answer 6

take things nice and slow....don't rush things. Your doing the right thing here. Get to know each other a bit more and what you both like through general discussion.

Answer 7

Although I'm not a girl, I feel compelled to answer.
Be Yourself, always.If you hold back too much you will miss out on some great times.

Answer 8

Don't be afraid to show emotions or be a "wuss". Girls dont like that. Atleast i dont

Answer 9

the less interested she thinks u are, the more she will want u. dont ignore her. thats not wut i meant. but DO NOT jump the gun and make yourself look pressed. u are doing it RIGHT!!!! I LOVE when a guy doesnt act pressed or acts like he would die without me. the less he tells me he likes me, the more i WANT him to.

Answer 10

uhh.. don't think of it as a strategy.. just go with the flow.. allow things to happen on their own.. seriously, if you guys are meant to be, it'll work out..

ick.. i sound so old.. oh well..