My friend has a crush on a married man. I told her she needed to leave him alone but she refuses. He is a cop and she is a dispatcher, so they work together..... Should i just leave it alone or how can i help her?
2006-09-02 22:04:55 · 8 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the right thing by telling her to leave him alone.
Don’t try to take it any further.
Your friend has chosen to not take notice of what you had to say, so now the ball is in her court.
All you can do now is remain her friend, and be there for her, if, as will likely be the case, she comes to grief.
There are things you could do, like make an anonymous phone call to the wife, but if your friend found out about it, she’d probably dump you as her friend.
2006-09-02 22:09:13 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best bet, I think, is to step back and let her do her thing. She will need lots of support once the **** hits the fan, support and a big shoulder to cry on. If she gets caught, is she strong enough to defend herself, or is she going to get the crap beat out of her? That would be another story!
2006-09-03 05:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by aawatson3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would keep trying to talk her out of it. He's married for one and she's single. She'll probably fall in love and then he'll dump her and break her heart. Plus he's a cop so you know they are liars and have no concern for anyones feelings. They train cops to be that way.
2006-09-03 05:09:32 · answer #3 · answered by Greg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old is she and if he is married id stay away as he might not enjoy the affection coming from another woman..
Just tell her to keep it low and not make it obvious she likes him
xxx
2006-09-03 05:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and find another man for her stat. if you cant then keep her distracted. take her on vacation of somthin cause if she doesnt stop things wit the mans wife and her could get ugly
2006-09-03 05:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by rlum0606 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't want to listen tell her to put herself in the wife's shoes make her realize that its wrong if you cant all you can do is just sit back and watch her make the biggest mistake of her life
2006-09-03 05:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you already warned her, make it very clear you do not like what she is doing, then suport her, and be there when she falls, cuz she will, but dont tell her i told you so, friends dont do that.
2006-09-03 05:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by my_lyin_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
help her find another guy. your friend might ruin his marriage. what will she feel if that happens? would she care or not? so find her another man.
2006-09-05 11:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by AngelCakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋