ok guys thanks for your opinions. and for all of the others who didn't read the first post. i basically asked if my flirty doctor was asking me what i was doing for the weekend for a reason, and most of you said that he was asking because he has a crush on me, ok this next question determines what i should do next. since i told him that i already had plans when he asked me what i was doing and everyone thinks that i kinda shot him down by saying that, i wanna know if i should call him on tuesday and ask him for an appointment, so i can let him know that even though he kept bringing up how old he is ... maybe let him know that age doesn't bother me? and i also want to let him know that i admire him greatly and that i am attracted to him as well. i would tell him over the phone but i think in person would be better.. what do you giuys think? should i or should i NOT? i really have developed a huge crush these last 6 months that he has been my dr w/ his constant flirting, compliments,
2006-09-02 21:59:52 · 7 answers · asked by sexy b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, would i look dumb asking him to schdule me another appointment to go tell him since i just saw him at an appointment yeaterday?
2006-09-02 22:00:55 · update #1
if he's not married...why not give it a try...to my knowledge doctors are better in bed...how old are you anyway...? i think he sees a weaker part of you thats why he's acting that way...he's 50 right & an a dr.we won't flirt if we didn't see any advantage....call it surety sweetie..
2006-09-02 23:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by james ian h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah make the appointment- only with a new doctor. I just have an idea he could get in some-kind of trouble from this breach of doctor/patient protocol. How good would you feel about that. And how old is he? Mid-life crisis? Should be old enough to know better. And smart enough I would hope. Don't worry about shooting him down cause if the higher ups get wind of this they may be doing a little shootin' themselves. Shoot that career to pieces.
You both acting like a couple of love sick grade school age kids.
Better cool it for now and sort out this emotional debacle.
Also, not for nothing, but he isn't married is he? Do you know?Just wondering.
2006-09-03 05:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy whata a conflict of interest there for the Doctor. I think that maybe you should call h im and make plans to talk over coffee. He can not be your doctor any longer if you allow him to cross the line here. you do understand that right.
2006-09-03 05:05:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel so special...he probably treats all good looking women the same.
Pretend you started seeing him.
Would you trust this guy with all the new patients that came after you? Wouldn't you begin to wonder what he was really doing at the office all day?
2006-09-03 09:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by carole0103 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think about sending a short note asking him to let you know exactly where this is going...then you can respond accordingly and not embarrass either one of you...if he tells you that he is really attracted to you then you know how to answer etc...
2006-09-03 06:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's weird to keep seeing him as my doctor and even more strange for him to have crossed the doctor patient line like he did.
2006-09-03 05:04:06 · answer #6 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is what you want, then just do it.
2006-09-03 05:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by want2wild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋