I was banging this girl and I never could ***. I think it stemmed from my religious background, and other issues such as pregnancy. So maybe my inner conscious was like no you will not *** so I never was able to. So of course she thought I was messed up and she left me. She died later that year. I think about that alot. Maybe she wasnt the right girl. Maybe thats the reason I have been afraid to date or even communicate to a girl. Im a caring, sensitive guy. Strangly I cant ***, unless I strangle hold my you know what with my hand. Help me out here...
2006-09-02 21:55:55 · 10 answers · asked by Financial Guru 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
loosen up a bit. tell the girl whats up,and you might need some kinda extra attention.(that can't be bad)if you think about it too much it wont happen. when you must give attention to yer hand; do it differently each time. like sit in a chair one time when you do it. next time sit on the fridge and do it, next time do a load of wash with the clothes all on one side of the tub ;then,sit on the washer and do the hand with the washer jumping across the room(thats a good one with a ***** on it).you get the idea?you gotta break outta the wrist rut. i kinda like ta fidget with mechanical stuff. i made my self a robot; i call it acs (artificial co*k suc*er)i was just kinda fartin around . i must say . acs is ; how should i say.... intense. also drink gatorade once a day. and allot of water. it dont happen wen you are dehydrated.
2006-09-02 22:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur having reservations about not having sex or if its w/ the wrong girl then yes u will have issues w/ orgasm. I suggest u wait til ur in a long committed relationship before u try sex again. Ur religious back ground is playing ur conscience n not allowing u to enjoy the sex act. Check out the other answers ans see what others have to say. Good luck. Remember ur young u have lots of time to have sex.
2006-09-02 22:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Cooljohnstu3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were using a condom during sex, that could be the reason for your problem. Someone once said that using a condom is like having sex through a shower curtain. In other words, you can't feel anything. Another reason could have been medication you were taking. Or maybe you were drunk or something like that.
2006-09-02 22:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by Coltrane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying dude. Relax chill down. Its not an issue, just make sure u are doing it right and with the right person. Its nothing to do with your body, as someone wisely said "good sex is not between the legs its between the ears". So dream your fantasy and live it while you have sex.
2006-09-02 23:03:33 · answer #4 · answered by Invincible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can come up with is that you need to relax more during sex. Also make the act a little more sensual and pleasurable for the both of you.
2006-09-02 21:59:25 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax ur mind and enjoy the moment think of nothing but u and ur sex partner n both of u guys naked ready to have a pleasuring experience...n maybe try sumthing different..do u have fanstasy does she have fanstasy? find out n maybe act up on it..do sum foreplay so ur d i ck gets teased and then maybe it will get harder n harder n u will want nothing more but to satisfy it...try anything new n maybe it will end up wit u cummin..and remember relax ur mind and jus have fun! good luck
2006-09-02 22:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off respect women !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
im sorry 2 hear about that girl ...
that she died.... but the main issue with u that i can c u need 2 learn how 2 respect urself and exspecialy women .....
u need 2 try and move on honey .
try this website www.jumpdates.com u can get 2 no a girl b4 u meet her and get in a relationship...
2006-09-02 22:04:56 · answer #7 · answered by Maria N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hiya, you are right that your past experince is coming inyour way of cumming.that is no issue.forget past enjoy present.becauseboth past and future are nomorein ourhold.only present.go ahead and *** to your satisfaction.If she is ready?
wish you all the best.hope to hear from you
2006-09-02 22:25:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so where's the problem?
when you're ready just slide out of her and by hand
shoot your load on her belly and breasts.
some girls will enjoy that, you just have to find the right one.
2006-09-02 22:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON' THINK BAD . LISTEN DEVOTIONAL MUSIC , DO MEDITATION, READ RELIGIOUS LITERATURE. & MAKE MARRY WITH A GOOD GIRL
2006-09-02 22:15:11 · answer #10 · answered by Udit D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋