This guy and i have been flirting with each other for a while. We want to have sex but.... he wants me to make him a video of myself before we do it! We send each other nude pics so he knows how my body looks.... but why does he want a video so bad?
2006-09-02 21:47:05 · 17 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do u want ur video 2 be on net...& every damn place in dis world ? NO...do u wanna be embarresed infront of da world...if da answer is yes..sure go ahead & do wat dat guys is telling u 2 do..
tell him 2 make a sex video of his...& give it 2 u...see wat he does..
dont make ur folks feel ashamed of u if these things get out in open...
if u cant make em feel proud of u...dont make em feel ashamed of u
2006-09-02 21:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK - i am gonna be rude -- a little - i don't intend too, but my first question is gonna be how old are you!!
and how old is the guy your flirting with??
umm i know this is the new age and relationships aren't what they used too be.
if your are 18 and you don't fear any of the possible bad out come from such an endeavor then i say go for it,if however you don't think you would like too have your nude pics put out over the Internet where you will probably not receive a dime for them --then don't do it.
and there is also the possibility of people seeing those pics that you may not want to be seen by.
but the choice is ultimately yours.
one more thought for you too consider is this the way you want the person you are flirting with too view you as not SO much of a person but as a sex object - a lot of this i am sure you know already, but sometimes it help to hear what you already know from somebody else .
any way best wishes for you in what ever choice you make.
also this is from a guy who does look at pent house mag so i don't know how valid you will take my answer's
2006-09-02 22:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by lesdrake2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just another part of his fantasy ppl always have em n sometimes they aren't as normal as u would think lol but if ur not comfortable or dint want to..then let him kno if he keeps pressuring u then his not understandable of u wishes n maybe tell him to find another girl to send him a video...but ur still willing to have sex w/ him if he still wont have sex wit u cuz u wont send him a vid then just 4get about him cuz its a waste of time n im sure another cutie will want to have sex so go find him! but be careful!
2006-09-02 21:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont send him anything,if he wants to have sex with u why does he need a video,be very careful this guy sounds like a freak. i wouldnt let my ex of 5 years video me,u never know whathe may do with it.
2006-09-02 22:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sherry Baby ( Ethan's Mama ) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care that he wants a video. I wouldn't have sex w/ someone who might just have a hidden camera. He can use this against you in the future.
2006-09-02 21:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by ElectroMagneticLight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it are you crazy? Nude pictures are more than you should have done already. If you have any extras I'd like some. LOL
2006-09-02 21:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by schlongy1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
blackmail nd don't send him nasty pictures leave something to the imagination if he knows what you look like naked why even bother having S** cuz he can just do what guys do and he done heck he already has the pictures why not get dinner and a date put of it
2006-09-02 21:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by p-nut butter princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It'll probably be passed around to all his friends etc. Unless that kind of thing turns you on.
2006-09-02 21:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all insane, including your wanting to have sex.
2006-09-02 21:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's going to share it with all his friends, then post it all over the Internet. Lastly, he will offer it on file sharing programs.
Can you please give me his email? I want to know when he releases it on Kazaa.
2006-09-02 21:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋