Hi, I like this 54 year old man and I am 20 years old. I know he likes me too, but I am not sure it is right for me to like him. I mean there is a 34 year age difference and he is good friends with my dad. I want to get togather with him but I don't know how to tell him or if I should just forget the whole thing. Help me please!!!! He is married to his wife of 21 years!
2006-09-02 21:31:21 · 12 answers · asked by ~Metalman Princess~ 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Visual Arts ➔ Painting
Mira told me that she is going to kick my a*ss and kill me....
2006-09-02 21:43:57 · update #1
this is YOUR answer to someones question: My daughter is 20 and she is messing around with a 54 year old married guy!!!! HAEHAHEHAEHAEHAEH
and the question you last asked was about you being 10 and pregnant!
Dumb A*ss find a hobby
2006-09-02 21:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Maimee 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
One of the challenges in being young is controlling urges, expecially ones of the heart which in actuality generate a bit lower in the body. Another aspect of being young is that few young people ever listen to advice from older, experienced folks who already have been down the roads you contemplate or want to travel. You asked for counsel...enjoy the rush of thought, then think about your own future husband and how you'd feel if he chased after a pretty young skirt.
2006-09-03 07:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by Victor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn u must be desperate liking a 54yr old dude why dont u get with someone your own age u have problems dating younger people or what? and im pretty sure your dad will flip out and kill u if u told him this
2006-09-03 04:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by ... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're asking for trouble!
I dated older married guys in their 30's in my 20's and discovered they just wanted my young hot body. Guys in their mid 40's to well past 60 will bang any young chick even if she's the size of a bus because their wives are usually so fridgid they haven't been laid since dinosaurs put out to humans!
I'm in my 40's and I won't date any guy past 35! (Too old and codjerly for one and too much erectile dysfunction risks after 40!)
PLUS, He's hanging with your dad,, that makes him a poor target because for one,, when your dad ever found out, you'd wreck their friendship, for another, if he was really your dads friend, he wouldn't bang his friends daughter (which if he did would make him a total dirt bag) and even another,,, he's married and if his wife found out she'd squeel like a pig to your dad and the world.
Move on, find someone younger (if your able). Odds are the old fart can't get it up anyway!
2006-09-03 04:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Freedom_Fighter_From_Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so uncool.
Leave that man alone, he has a wife.
What's wrong? Are the guys your age not attracted to you?
2006-09-03 04:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by tina m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg, listen to yourself, do you really want to open that can of worms? you probably going threw"want what i can have" type thing, but if you pursue this, you will devastate MANY lives, go get your own, and dont ever be the other women, respect yourself for God sake
2006-09-03 04:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by ive_just_had_2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is ok for 15 day trial period. Then it would last if both parties desire so. Good luck!
2006-09-03 08:06:55 · answer #7 · answered by x_squared 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U sound like a nice home-wrecking slut.
look me up if your ever in the DC metro area, lol
2006-09-03 04:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by dctrod225 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
please let this one go by..... # 1 the guy is married... #2 he is your Dads friend, # 3 the guy is way too old for you.... this guy just wants to get laid...he won't be leaving his wife for you... find a single guy, closer to your own age... why get involved with all these complications ? its not worth it....
2006-09-03 04:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Fortune 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope
2006-09-03 05:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by hitleridol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋