I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. I love him, he means everything to me and I never want to be without him.
Well, that's what I thought a week ago. But since I started taking birth control, I've noticed I've gotten a lot bitcher, more mood swings, and I feel like it wasn't the same that it used to be. Everyone tells me that this is normal, and I shouldn't over it, but I can't help it. I keep wondering if maybe it isn't the medication, maybe I really just don't love him, and I can't stop crying about it.
I just love him so much, I don't want to hurt him. I don't want to lose the greatest thing that's happened to me.
Hopefully, in about 2 months, the effects will go away and things will get back to normal. I've told him that things will get difficult, and things will be much harder than it used to be, and he said he would do whatever it takes. He's even said that if I told him I didn't love him anymore, he would stay with me, and help me fall back in love if I wanted to.
2006-09-02 20:42:21 · 5 answers · asked by Jenners 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you never fell out of love with him. If you had you wouldn't cry over it and you wouldn't worry about losing the greatest thing that's happened to you. You also wouldn't make the statement "I just love him so much" Does any of that sound like you fell out of love. You are just going through some adjustments. If willing to stick it out with you and is understanding, then quit fussing. Also, would someone who didn't care even bother to write for help. Come on you already know the answer, just trust yourself and him and once the hormones realign you'll both be fine.
2006-09-02 20:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your doctor about changing your pill, or even the method. I've noticed when I'm on the pill, my PMS is worse than when I'm not, so it can affect your moods, etc.
2006-09-02 20:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by milomax 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least ur bf is appreciative, consult the doctor who prescribed the birth control method and discuss with ur bf about it
2006-09-02 20:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
consult ur doc about mood changes.
2006-09-02 20:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by hsarora47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i don't the time to read alll that ....
2006-09-02 20:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by friendsking1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋