i have a ex and it seems we get along better when we are not dating. it seems we do better as friends. do you think this is a good idea? he stills act like he wants me. but i feel better when we have no commitment cuz he lies about some things and i always think he is messing around.but when we have no commitment i dont care about that. and i dont worry and he knows that.
2006-09-02 20:13:05 · 17 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should only be friends with this guy and nothing else- you even said yourself that he lied in the past. And if you feel that you can't even trust him then you should also reconsider your friendship with him.
good luck:)
2006-09-02 20:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex (also my son's father) is 1 of my best friends. we were together for 8 yrs & have been apart for 8 yrs so i guess time has helped in allowing us to stay friends (having a child together has also played a big part). don't get me wrong, we still have our share of ups & downs but w/o being in a committed relationship w/ 1 another, the downs don't affect our friendship that much
2006-09-03 03:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by momatendofrope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in some cases it works out, but if he acts like he still wants you it can get ugly. Sometimes they get jealous of other guys in your life. But if he knows that you are only friends that it could work out. No commentment is the best thing for you with this guy.
2006-09-03 03:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ranger Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't hang out with my ex but I would want to remain friends with her. My son's mother and I are best friends I even went to her wedding. But we never hung out together the relationship was over but the friendship remained. Don't hang out move on
2006-09-03 03:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, It sounds like you are headed for trouble.If you think he still wants you, and he has lied to you before.He will lie to you again even being friends,which this friend thing will turn into a big mess.You need to move on with your life,while you still can.
Clowmy
2006-09-03 03:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally prefer to cut all ties with ex's whether or not they ended it or I ended it. Whats in the past best left in the past.
2006-09-03 03:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by oooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hang out with my ex sometimes...and yeah we are better as friends.
2006-09-03 03:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i'm still friends with my ex, and our situation is similar to yours. Now, I am the one that he talks about his affairs to, i'm soooo glad we are friends now and not together. Now i actually like him again, lol.
2006-09-03 03:22:42 · answer #8 · answered by el 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it and see.You gust answer your Question.Your a very smart lady.Plus he can try and help you out and scope out the bad men for you.You never know.
2006-09-03 03:19:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hang out with him...my ex was a dick...and i hate his guts...the same problems will arise, try to remembe why he's your ex.
2006-09-03 03:20:26 · answer #10 · answered by hazeleyedbambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋