he is goin pretty far and i don't know what to do, and i'm kinda scared but i am the worst at breaking up with ppl and last time we broke up he cried i hate it when guys cry but now i think he has just gone to far should i just break up with him and let it go or just tell him to leave me alone and slow down? should i give him a third chance?
2006-09-02 19:25:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie as much as he wants to go all the way with you, his crying may just be frustration or a trick. If he really respected you and loved you, then he would wait for you to be ready. If he can't respect your wish to hold off on such an important event in your life then I'd say dump him, because he'll never respect anything else you do or say. Ask him why he wants to go all the way so much and if his reply is about wanting to show his love for you then ask him to show his love by not pressuring you anymore.
2006-09-02 19:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him make it clear where the line is and tell him to slow down, if doesn't respect that dump him. My experience has been that guys will cry when they know they can get you to cross that line by doing so. No one is good at breaking up, but your options are limited here and sometimes we have to swallow the bitter pill to taste the sweet desert
2006-09-02 19:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that honestly depends all on you, do you want to give him a third chance? think about it long and hard. maybe its my bad track record with men but when they found my weakness they held it over my head until they got what they wanted from me.
do you want to be with him? I mean if he really cared about you he wouldn't be pushing you, at least that's what I think. can you see yourself going with him again? what do you feel for him? you may not like making guys cry but put your foot down and be strong don't let him walk all over you (here I go talking like I know you and him I'm sorry if I'm imposing but I've seen too many of my friends get hurt because of things they were forced into) hahaha....I'll be going now *flees*
2006-09-02 19:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by wolfs_bayne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called "emotional blackmail" drop him and don't look back!!!
each time he cries you feel sorry for him and let him take advantage of you because you feel guilty for making him cry... it won't stop until he gets every thing he wants and leaves you broken
2006-09-02 19:33:44 · answer #4 · answered by dosey-rosey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like an absolute Pansy....
Show him whos boss.. he can either slow down or leave you the heck alone.. he doesn't have the right to play you like that !!!!
Your In Control
2006-09-02 19:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by Gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Quiet, Too Quiet! Be Careful, It's A Trap!
2006-09-02 19:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can u do something dat ur conscience does not allows u ?
u sure wud not...if sme1 really loved u/....he wud've waited for da right time...2 take da step ahead...wen he knows ur not ready for smethn....n he still wants 2 do it wid u...indicates he's confused ...on whether he loves u ...as da girl u are...or Lusts u....
its better 2 leave him n let him mature den be wid a gyu who only wants 1 thing from u...time wil make him mature...& if he comes back...he'l be a new guy....trust me..
2006-09-02 20:12:22 · answer #7 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother to give him another chance? Obviously, he doesn't respect your wishes...Leave him and be strong. Don't fall for the "sensitive" guy routine--they're crocodile tears!
2006-09-02 19:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him cry as much as he wants but don't do anything you don't want to do .
better that he cries than you .
2006-09-02 19:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cries cause he knows it will affect you. Just dump him and get it over with.
2006-09-02 19:31:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋