I dated my ex-boyfriend for a month then he ended it. But after it was over he would always contact me on msn & give me hints that he likes me & he even invited me to his b-day party. I went to his b-day telling him I came only as a friend and he kinda ignored me. After that we both stopped talking to each other on msn. Then, 2 months after his b-day he said hi to me and thanked me for coming to his b-day and said he was sorry for ignoring me, well I told him that I only came to say a final goodbye to him and close the book. Today I was in total shock b/c he said hi to me on msn and wanted to know what I was up to. We chatted for a bit then I asked him why he was saying hi to me now, and he said that it was " just cuz he hadn't seen me in awhile and that he drives by my house a lot b/c he friend lives down the street from me" . Then he said he had to go.I'm confused, Why would he contact me after 3 months of not talking? Do you think he misses me and regrets dumping me?
2006-09-02 19:02:40 · 9 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, we had a very innocent relationship, it never went past kissing, he knows that I'm saving sex for marriage. I added this just so people can't say that he's horny because he knows that I won't go very far haha!
2006-09-02 19:11:11 · update #1
There is clearly something he misses. A lot of times, us guys date or go out with someone, then after it seems to be over, for whatever reason, we look back. If we don't get satisfaction in a new relationship, we think, "Sally used to look at me this way!", or, "Brenda had a pretty smile and nice laugh!".
It's the classic "the grass is always greener on the other side" syndrome, and we want to go back. Sometimes it's a good thing, once we realize how good we had it with another. Sometimes it's still not a good thing, and should be left alone.
You have to make that call, and you have to be convinced he is again pursuing you for YOU this time. Be careful regardless.
2006-09-02 19:08:53 · answer #1 · answered by Life after 45 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like that he has been reflecting on the relationship that he shared with you and wants to get back together with you. Also from what you have said, i think that he's single at the moment and is simply looking for someone to give him happiness and good times (just like you did)
From my past experience i know that if you do decide to go back with him, it wont be good at all. Simply remind him that you'd rather stay friends and if he doesnt like the sound of that, then too bad. Otherwise i feel that you will just end up being dumped by him just like b4.
Good luck with the situation.
2006-09-02 19:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by chiiky25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-25 02:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he regrets his decision, or maybe he has an ego to forfil and considering he didn't get to second base with you, maybe that is his agenda, I personally don't think he is worth it, you only lasted one month and the history speaks for itself, Some guys are just plain **** heads and don't see a good thing when they have got it. I believe you deserve better and mister right will be out there when you least expect it. learn from this and have clarity in your mind as to what you won't tolerate from a partner. Good Luck and keep smiling.
2006-09-02 19:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by oooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are 2 possible reasons;
1 He has not been with anyone as nice as you and now wants to be you again.
2. He now thinks he can get something from you (could be sex or access to a mutual friend).
Whatever it is, you have something he wants. Leave him alone and just go on your way.
2006-09-02 19:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by mklwis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a. he's horny.
b. he might be regretting it.
c. he might want to be friends.
but i think its more like a.
but who knows, we can't tell you how he feels. why don't you go hang out with him and see what he wants. talk to him.
if he hints at wanting sex, do what you want to do. if you wanna have sex with him go ahead. if not don't do it.
if he wants to be friends and your cool with that, go for it. if not just leave.
if he wants to get back with you, give it a go.
a little warning, if he says he wants to get back together and wants to have sex that day when you two talk, that should be a warning lol.
anyways, good luck. :)
2006-09-02 19:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by artist.returned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he realized what he lost and now want's it back
2006-09-02 19:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had sex with him, he probably would like to do it again.
If you didnt have sex with him, he probably hopes you will.
2006-09-02 19:04:45 · answer #8 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's horny.
2006-09-02 19:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋