my friend is 16 and she really knows the guy they were best friends since grade 2 they been dating for 4 years, should they really do XXX and use condums??? or have SEX and not use condums??? or not have sex at all!?! ( I HATE MY FRIEND FOR PRESURING ME !!!!!) (she keeps on asking me, "should we do it or not!!!!!!!!!" argggg!)
2006-09-02 18:37:13 · 10 answers · asked by E.watson 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
her boyfriends family and him will be migrating to america, but they love each other, thats why their so pressure to do it!
2006-09-02 18:43:37 · update #1
just tell her if she has to ask you shes not ready
2006-09-02 18:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first its ok that its not your friend and u that is wondering about haveing XXX but remember that this is a one time deal u cant take it back and unless u wanna start carrying your friends baby use a condum please!! there is too many teen agers that r pregnant and im a teen too so its not like im a mom giveing young girl advise i totaly get what your saying and i turned now who was pressuring me belive me no one will do anything if u dont yes the guy who wants u too may be a lil disaponted but u would be a better woman growing up is all about resposiblety how responsible does a pregnat 16 year old look shoping for bottels?
please make the right choose
God bless
2006-09-03 01:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by tiny&proud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her NOT TO DO IT, and she will thank you later! I'm 22, and first had sex at 19 and looking back, I wish I waited a few more years. 16 is just TOOO YOUNG to make a big decision like that!
2006-09-03 01:40:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE HES PRESSURING HER. MAYBE SHES NOT READY YET. IT'S NOT THE END OF THE WORLD NOT TO BE READY YET. IF THEY'VE BEEN TOGETHER SO LONG IT SHOULDN'T BE A BIG DEAL. TELL HER TO TALK TO HIM MORE ABOUT IT AND BUILD A TRUST UP ABOUT IF SHE CHANGES HER MIND THEN SHE CAN SAY A CERTAIN WORD LIKE NO OR SOMETHING THAT WILL END THE STAGE OR LVL THAT SHES AT. TRUST IS A BIG ISSUE.
2006-09-03 01:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by someones sister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they shouldn't be doing it at all but if they do then they should practice safe sex. so tell ur friend not to do it and to wait at least until she's 18, and if they persist about wanting to(BOTH OF THEM) then u should advise them to practice safe sex(even though the safest one is to not do it at all) and to use a condom AND, if possible, the birth control pill but always a condom, but its better to use both!(if they both really want to do it)
2006-09-03 01:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by ParadoxZero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it, the first time should be with someone you care about, and sounds like they care about each other...use condoms. do it in a bed...candels, make it special, no t a quick thing....
2006-09-03 01:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend needs to ask this question
2006-09-03 01:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll be better off if they wait. What's the big hurry?
2006-09-03 01:38:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well remember safe sex. and if it's one of those cousins, don't have them running to you with mental kids
2006-09-03 01:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by Kira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about you and me
2006-09-03 01:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by Zahir U 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋