We dont find each other interresting as it was earlier. Our relationship does not bring us sweet feelings as once it was. But we love each other. She is a perfect match for me. But we cant be together any more. Whats the problemmmmmm......................?
2006-09-02 18:36:32 · 11 answers · asked by Amila 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me tell, you that it takes more than love to sustain a relationship i know ive been with my wife for 6 years now & have a 4y old son with another on the way : ) there was times when we thought it wouldnt work but you have work through it. Firstly you have to have love its the foundation to all relationships secondly in the world we live in today the pressure placed on young people to run with the crowd and stay single is huge. With that said i think young people exspect to walk into a relationship and live hapily ever after. A good friend of mine who has been married for 50 years said the three things to make sure a relationship stays together are communication, cooperation, consideration stick by thesse 3cs and you should be ok. Oh and by the way we (my wife andi ) know how it feels my wife and i are only 23 we met at 16 in h school.
2006-09-02 19:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by family guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make love to her all the time, never stop making love to her the way you did when you first met her. Passionately kiss her entire body before you actually have "sex."
Talk to her daily about how her day went and spend more time together. During the weekends take trips to the beach, park, or just get away from it all.
Text message each other a lot throughout the week and never stop telling her that you love her. Give her a kiss when you leave to work and when you return home.
2006-09-03 01:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by zebo007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you may love each other, but you are not IN love with each other. Be happy you figured this out before marriage. Shake hands, say good bye and move on down the road.
2006-09-03 01:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your love is not fading, your just getting comfortable with each other. Try making a date and going to a hotel meet each other in seperate cars make it like your first date.
2006-09-03 01:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by rahlyd swamp muffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly natural for the hots to fade and be replaced by a comfortable love. I think its natures trick to guarantee contraception lol. Anyway, It is the love and friendship that keeps people together. If you feel dissatisfied then move on, but if you are comfortable and love her then don't sweat it.
2006-09-03 01:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by el 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try a romantic getaway or something to put that spark back in your relationship? Talk, listen, and take the time to explore each other once again. Why don't you even try to be spontaneous and do something unexpected for your girlfriend?
2006-09-03 01:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd remember these things:
1. When I see her for the first time
2. When I become crazy and can't sleep becuase of her
3. When I say my love to her
4. When I have a first date with her
5. When I hold her hands for first time
6. When I kiss her for the first time
2006-09-03 01:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about the things you use to enjoy together or make some new adventures up. read more on relationships that will help you on this site
2006-09-03 01:41:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try new things! Or plan sweet surprises for her.
2006-09-03 01:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by hiya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love will never fade !
2006-09-03 01:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by herbs411_42719 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋