He always teLL me hes at his cousins on strange evenings. We have been together for about2 and a half years and i love him dearly. I dont think i can take it anymore. I only have had sex with him only in two and a half years and i think I have a drip. I am glad hes here and I know i have to tell him. I am sitting here getting my nerve up to bust his bubble about i know that you were cheating because I am sick with an S.T.D. I f he tell me that he did not give it to me i will leave him even though it is going to kill me inside. He means a lot to me. What am i to do?
2006-09-02 18:26:49 · 6 answers · asked by nathaniel m 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Sounds like you have it all planned out. You do exactly what you planned on doing and don't let him or anyone stop you. And remember this. If he loved you as much as you love him, he would have never cheated on you in the first place.
2006-09-02 18:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by teeniey37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get tested first to be sure it IS an STD. Then, if it is, you know you will have to confront him. Unfortunately, once a cheater always a cheater unless HE wants to change that. Usually if you suspect something isn't right, you are probably correct. But, the good news...once you have enough self respect to stand up for yourself and get rid of his hurtfulness you will hopefully be open for a healthier and more trustworthy relationship. Because you know deep down it is not fun to be always worried that he isn't being faithful. Right now, I know you can't imagine life without this guy. The only way to treat yourself right is to let go of this mess. Drop him before he gives you something that antibiotics can't fix. YOU DESERVE BETTER.
2006-09-02 18:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by blondambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to him...and if i were id have to break up because no matter how much you feel for him he obviously cant feel the same for you so whats the point in staying in some unhappy lieing realationship?
2006-09-02 18:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to visit your doctor and get treated for the STD, then confront him. Your health is the most important thing right now.
2006-09-02 18:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by AzOasis8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an A--hole. I know you love him, but you have to have some RESPECT for yourself. If you're not going to stand up for youreslf no one else will.
2006-09-02 18:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face it head on
2006-09-02 18:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋