my boyfriend and i have been together for 2-3 months (very seriously though) and physically things have progressed fast. i know he really likes me and isn't in it for that kind of stuff, and during the moment i'm willing/want to do it, but afterwards i always wonder if i shouldn't have. how do i stop feeling this way. i feel it isnt' fair to him, becuase he's not making me do anything i don't want to.
this does not include sex
2006-09-02 18:24:15 · 15 answers · asked by JudyRamone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i also think about it before i see him, and think "i want to do that" i'm usually quite sure i want to, its only afterwards.
2006-09-02 18:33:26 · update #1
I believe that you should talk to him and let him know what you are thinking and feeling and let him know what you are thinking. If you don't let him know, then nothing will change. Maybe you just need some more time before you do it again or maybe there is just a subconscious reason that you are feeling guilty. Think it over and try to figure it out and talk to your boyfriend to try to resolve this problem or it may come back to haunt you by snowballing into a bigger problem. Don't let it get out of control.
2006-09-02 18:30:16 · answer #1 · answered by AmsterF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not sure how you feel about him. You may have some doubts about him. Or maybe you have some baggage from previous relationship or encounter with the opposite sex. Did things progress too quickly with someone in your past? Maybe you havent resolved a private issue? Try to analyze your own thoughts and figure out exactly what your feelings are.
2006-09-02 18:29:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
on account which you're purely 15. this is distinctive once you're 18 and up. once you're 15, you're nonetheless gaining wisdom of approximately your physique and issues substitute. technically, at 15 you're able to be playing life as a toddler not getting sexual with a boy.. yet this worldwide has replaced a ton from back interior the day.. and you probable sense in charge on account which you be responsive to its incorrect and you're able to attend until eventually you're older
2016-10-01 06:05:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and be honest. If he's the right guy for you..then he should understand. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. The best way to be in a relationship is to be yourself!
2006-09-02 18:30:30 · answer #4 · answered by feisty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Judy, Sorry Baby Gurl, But if You were Ready for sex, then you wouldn't be feeling guilty about it afterwards!!! I'd hold back awhile if i were you,....Kelly*
2006-09-02 18:36:36 · answer #5 · answered by kellylewis652000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your not ready for that physical of a relationship. What's the rush? It's okay to take your time. If your not ready, your not ready. There's no harm in that.
2006-09-02 18:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with my last ex I found out that I didn't like him as much as had thought...It just took a big mess up on his part for me to notice it.....Good luck
2006-09-02 18:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called guilt, the previous feelings are hormones. then your morals take over afterward .
2006-09-02 18:28:07 · answer #8 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your heart is trying to tell you some thing listen.I do hope you are pleasing your self first
2006-09-02 18:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it too soon that is why, either give it a little time, or slow down, soon maybe you will fall more in love and then it will feel better, if not, then it would be time to move on...
2006-09-02 18:29:20 · answer #10 · answered by wizzard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋