my sisters just got her first computer. she has never used one befor in her life. i went over to her house to help her upload some photos to her blog instead of doing it for her i was trying to teach her how to do it her self. the whole 4 hours she argued with me and well you can imagine how it was. any way I'm going through it step by step and she is watching me the whole time but she wont shut up for one minute! talking to me like I'm some kind of fool or something. its not just this she argues with every one about every thing i love my sister but she doesn't have a lick of sense. every ones wrong and she is always right . she thinks she is some kind of super genius or something. HELP!!!!
2006-09-02 18:22:15 · 10 answers · asked by henna 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
i know how you feel the same thing happened to me. its really hard especially if they are way older then you and are and set in their ways.it makes them feel smarter by treating you like you are stupid. they dont under stand that it just makes them look even more stupid. i will try and explain something 3 times at the most before i get fed up and say OK! but even then most of the time they wont shut up.they will continue to belittle you. Ive been told i dont know how to explain things, but it reality they just dont know how to listen and pay attention. its like they have made up their mind you are wrong befor you ever finish the first sentence. all you can do is either change the subject or nip it in the bud right off the bat by saying i just dont know. or just say why should i wast your time or mine trying to explain when your not gonna listen to me any way. then go by them windows for dummies or something lol.
2006-09-02 18:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by unitedfaith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, believe me that your sister love you too...
second, there are some kind of people doesn't wanna you to tell them that they don't know because they consider that some kind of shame or whatever...
But these people have there own way to learn. DO YOU KNOW HOW?
it is by observing and memorizing the steps.
so, you can teach her while you're doing you job without telling her anything even she was talking. Levey her to learn in her own way & don't try to talk about what you're doing. Hence I'm sure your problem will be end.
2006-09-02 18:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Dr.answer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people just have this personality, and it is really hard to deal with...It will cause a fight, for sure. ...when you try to tell her...but you could start out with 'Maybe it is me, and you can tell me what you think when I am through"...and then try to tell her..and let her know that she is breaking your concentration when she interrupts you...the arguing about everything is really a personality trait, and I dont think there is a darn thing you can do a bout it...some people are just plain difficult.
2006-09-02 21:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her you know i have heard that 2 ears 1 mouth for a reason. Or try this you know you can learn alot about a person from just listening maybe one of these will help you.
2006-09-02 18:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by queenie_the_big_pushen_meanie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nicely i'm certain your haircut looks wonderful. do not situation and do not be damage. Your sister is probable basically both jealous of you or she basically is being mean. attempt telling your mom or dad. Or in case you want basically tell her the reality and she or he will be able to probable end.
2016-12-06 04:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of YOU doing it for HER. Have HER do it while you TALK her though it. That way YOU won't have to LISTEN to her TALK!
If she starts arguing with you LEAVE!
2006-09-02 18:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by jennifersuem 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what I have learned about family. If you family member is right tell them they are right and if they are wrong sometimes it is just best to "shut up".
2006-09-02 18:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie A 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well the next time she ask you to come and her do something ask her if she is sure she doesn't want to do the job herself. You don't need this grief.
2006-09-02 18:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by phylobri 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've heard if you want someone to listen to you, whisper. Be sure you listen to her, then ask her for the same courtesy.
2006-09-02 19:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by charlies mom 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So stop helping her
2006-09-02 18:26:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋