that just because a woman smokes and drinks that she's a slutbag. I was reading another question and the guy wanted to know if he should date this woman because she might put out later but she drinks, smokes, a cuss a lot. I know plenty of non-smokers and non-drinkers who are total slutbuckets. Why would some men assume that because a woman drinks, smokes, and may cuss alot that she's easy. I've never heard this before. I hang with a lot of guys too, but the they never mentioned something like this. Do some men really think this way?
2006-09-02 18:20:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
terryshawn1975
First of all smoking is an addiction and it's not something someone can just stop doing in one night. Second, just because a person drinks doesn't mean they have problems in their life. Cussing doesn't say you have a bad upbringing. I drink, I smoke, and I cuss a lot, but I don't hang at bars, I'm not going through depression, I'm not drowning my sorrows in liqour, and I'm not killing anyone with my cigarette smoke, because most places you can't smoke in indoors anyway and there are far worst thing in our atmosphere then my cigarette smoke. I think people should not judge a person by who they think they are, but by who they really are. The only way to do that is to get to know them for them and not a couple of bad habits. I mean I don't go around saying a guy has been in jail or something because he smokes. Or I don't say a man is a nothing because he cusses, and I don't say he's a bar hopper because he drinks. Go to a rich country club. Everyone drinks,smokes,cuss.
2006-09-02 18:43:13 · update #1
sadly yes......im desturbed by this too hun....stay kool
2006-09-02 18:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women who drink, smoke, and cuss a lot often got this habit hanging around smoky bars on Friday night.
A woman who acts this way is often labeled a BAR FLY, a common type of slut.
A lot of men think this way and make these connections.
2006-09-03 01:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think he means she is a slut.. it is just undesireable.. who want to be around a smoker? no one..they kill themselves and you... someone who drinks all the time is not happy with themselves or their life.. how will they be happy with you? cuss alot.. means a lady has not had a good up bringing.. the slut part is all in the way she conducts herself.. never read that in the question.. it is just her lifestyle he is concerend about
2006-09-03 01:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by terryshawn1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems silly that guys can do all this and if its a girl she gets a bad reputation. guys need to step outside the square sometimes. read more on dating and relationships that might help you more on this site
2006-09-03 01:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he means ghetto
2006-09-03 01:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunately, not all men think that way.
2006-09-03 01:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋