I met tis woman at my work on tues and finally talked to her on fri after watching other guys try to get w/her. We had simple conversations and laughed a whole bunch. Today the same thing we laughed and talked alot and basically we both just talk to eachother now. I asked her for her number (she has no cell) and she said she doesnt give out her home number. Usually at this point I stop talking to women cuz I feel rejected but for some reasone we syill kept talking and nothing fely weird then I said its nice to be able to hold a conv w/some1 and she blushed big time. Im gonna ask her to dinner next week and just see what happens. But can any of you women out there tell me what shes doin? Is she playing hard to get or is it something else?
2006-09-02 18:05:33 · 22 answers · asked by Keyon F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's very possible that she's playing hard to get, but another reason could be because she doesn't want to be encountered w/ any weridos, so she's just checking u out to make sure ur a good guy and not a stalker. Since u've been talking 2 her for a few days, perhaps she's still being cautious, or like u said, playing hard to get. But def go w/ the dinner thing. I hope she'll say yes! Good blessings!
2006-09-02 18:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say she wants to get to know you more. I would give her your number and let her go with that. Also she might be living with her parents still or has a room mate, female, and it's not her phone number to give out. If she don't have a cell phone, she might not even have a home phone. I think I would wait on dinner until you see what she does when you give her your number. Good luck.
2006-09-03 01:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being cautious and well she should. Dating guys from work? Could be a recipe for disaster. Think about how she will appear to everyone else. She is being careful to keep the integrity of her work persona intact. But all is not lost if she is interested in you. Just proceed with caution and be very respectful of the enviroment in which you and her are developing. When you ask her out to dinner........do it quietly and privately if possible. Believe me, she will appreciate it!
2006-09-03 01:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. She may not like you in that way.
2. She doesn't date guys she works with.
3. She doesn't want to be bothered because everyone there is trying to date her.
I honsetly don't think you have a chance and i wouldn't ask her out either. If she won't give you her number then she probably won't go out with you either. I mean if I turned a guy down who asked for my number. 9 times out of 10, I would turn him down for a date.
2006-09-03 01:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's playing hard to get. Sounds to me like she's a good person, maybe a little shy, and wants to get to know someone before being alone with them. Not giving out her home number is something that a lot of women do --- it's for safety and respect her for her honesty.
Good luck, I hope it works out!
2006-09-03 01:10:33 · answer #5 · answered by helpme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is possible that this woman is just a very private person and she doesn't like people calling her at home. If you go out on a couple of dates and she still refused to give you her number, then I would definitely be concerned that she is hiding something...like a boyfriend.
2006-09-03 01:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by MegySu 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she likes you at work, but wants nothing to do with you outside of that. she has a cell phone, she just doesn't want to give you her number (same thing i do to blow guys off) and when you asked for her home and she rejected, that should be your clue there. she likes you, but she's not looking to go further than the relationship the two of you have at work. don't ask her out if you want a relationship at all with her.
2006-09-03 01:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you give her your number and tell her give you a call and just let the friendship develop? She might just be being careful, and if you don't rush her you'll have a good friend that can move to more.
2006-09-03 01:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by sheryl m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try giving her your number and see what happens. If she call you...you might have a chance. If she don't I bet you she has a boyfriend or husband. And then again she might like other women.
2006-09-03 01:11:38 · answer #9 · answered by winnp1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you. When she refused to give you her number, I think she was playing hard to get. Don't worry and be patient. I'm sure she'll give you eventually. Good luck and wish you two a great time together. :D
2006-09-03 01:10:52 · answer #10 · answered by CRT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋