Here is the deal. I have always been the perfect gentlemen to her. I was there when she needed a shoulder to cry on, but I think that she thinks that I am overwieght and that is why she does not like me, but really I am not huge or anything a few extra poends that I am working on losing. Here is the problem though. I have started taking diet pills and run like 4 miles a day and have not eaten in two days I think and I hate myself and she continues to walk all over me. I really just want to give up what do you think.
2006-09-02 17:47:10 · 9 answers · asked by Surfer guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, if I were you since you have known her for a while, you should make her miss you. Dont call, talk or hang out with her. When she is needy, she will come back to you. Tell her your busy with friends and you will call her back. Don't call her until she calls you. See she knows that you will always be there for her, so it really doesn't matter if she is your g/f or not. She takes you for granted, and when she realizes your gone, she will be running after you. Oh, by the way start trying to find another date. Women always want something that they can't get. Good luck.
2006-09-02 17:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by james w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Women don't really want to be a) Put on a pedestal b)Fawned over constantly. c) dealing with heavy feelings from people they didn't seek out unless they are ready.
2) They actually prefer someone who can stand up to them a little, is independent and not needy. They prefer a just bit of a bad boy to a perfect gentleman.
3) Women are everywhere, and there is always another if things don't work out (at least until you're my age).
2006-09-03 01:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by Steve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all girls think self-confidence is sexy. If you have that 'I hate myself' attitude, it'll get you NOWHERE. One of the most popular guys at my old school was a little heavy but he was really funny and confident, so it worked. Second of all, not eating actually causes you to gain weight and lowers your metabolism. Keep running, but take rest days so muscle can build. Also, if she 'walks all over you' and cares about how you look, then she's not worth it. Stop obsesssing over her. it'll be hard, but you sound like really depressed and no girl is worth that. Good luck!
2006-09-03 00:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Chelsie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are now,
but your idea of winning her over sounds dumb,
Go through all that make yourself miserable for her, if she doesn't slike you for your size then i'd find somebody else, yeah you've been into her all this time, I've been into girls for long periods to no avail,
you eventuallu probably will hate yourself if you find so much wrong with you just for her,
i wouldn't do what your doing unhealthy, if she wants a ken doll then let her go get one
2006-09-03 00:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, she is just using you for when she is feeling down, but has no intentions to go beyond that.
Now, on to you. PLEASE DON"T STARVE YOURSELF TO GET THIN!!!! That is not the way to do that. If you do lose the weight, I hate to tell you, but that won't make her like you anymore. She still will see you as she wants to--a shoulder to cry on and nothing more. Don't mean to be harsh, but that is the reality.
You need to find someone who will appreciate you for who you are. People say that they dont' like someone because they are ugly or overweight or whatever--but that is NOT the reason. If they truly liked you, it wouldn't matter. She seems shallow and that isn't good for your self esteen. Find people who like you for who you are. You are worth it.
Good luck!
2006-09-03 00:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by sidnee_marie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon dont starve urself
okay if she doenst liek u 4 who u r then shes not rite 4 u. heres the thing; she mite decide she likes u wen and if u loose weight...but ull no that...wont u? that would make me feel really bad if thats the only reason some1 liked me. so dont starve urself and sh.it over a girl who doesnt aprieciate u
2006-09-03 00:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS STOPING THIS IDEA THAT YOU
NEED TO DO THINGS TO GET SOME GIRL TO LIKE YOU.
AND IF YOU DIETING FOR THAT REASON STOP IT YOU
NEED TO START EATING AND GET BACK IN THE SWING
OF THINGS LET THIS GIRL GO AND FIND SOMEONE THAT
WILL APPRECATE A GOOD YOUNG MAN. SHE NOT WORTH
IT. ONCE YOU SEE THAT YOU AE WORTH IT . THEN IT
WILL GET A LOT BETTER DONT LET ANYONE TAKE
YOUR SPRIT AWAY FROM YOU. THERE ARE OTHER
FISH IN THE SEA. YOU JUST NEED TO GO OUT THERE
AND FIND YOU A GOOD ONE.
2006-09-03 00:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is what you do, you tell her exactly how you feel about her, not to try and get her to like you, but so that you can get all of it off your chest and let go it and move on and start liking someone else who really appreciates and likes you for who you are, and start takin care of yourself again, never let something like this make you hate yourself, its never worth it in the end
2006-09-03 00:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by fatalbert167 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone knows that quiters quit bcuz they always quit
2006-09-03 00:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋