Ok my hubby has quit smoking after his wisdom teeth operation as i have said in one of my other questions but ever since his operation or more to the point his quitting smoking like a week ago his not very intimate with me. No hugs (hardly) No kisses (As much) And absolutely no sex... I tried to be you know all hey baby lets make love but his not nterested... Ive tried everything.. Making him food he can eat (as his mouth is still a bit ouch) ive tried you no touching his body and working my way down in like a massage and you no getting kinky etc but nothing is working..
What do i do?? Is this normal for someone quitting smoking?? Or ??????
PLEASE HELP EVERYONE!!
THANKS
2006-09-02 17:39:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wisdom teeeth surgery can hurt like Helloooooooooooo
Have you come out and be upfront saying...why are we not intimate????
2006-09-02 17:52:36 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's only a week away, so don't be so impatient! He's probably suffering some form of withdrawal symptoms from being deprived of his smoke.
By the way, did he quit smoking on his own accord or was it done involuntarily? If it is the latter, you have your answer to his behaviour. Maybe he's stressed.
2006-09-02 18:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and see if he can give some insight on his feelings. If he doesn't offer much give him some time. I would think that someone no longer getting nicotine after having it in their system for so long would go through some changes as their body adjust to the sudden stop of nicotine.
2006-09-02 17:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that maybe he's just focousing on not smoking rather than being intimate. You have to remember that he 's fighting a battle that is a tough one.Just support him, he'll come around.
2006-09-02 17:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by phooh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not know if your relationship is slipping due to the abuse in your waking life. It may or it may not have any effect. of course abuse in general is going to have some effects on a person.
2016-03-17 06:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not talk to him and find out what the problem is? If the two of you can't work it out go back to his doctor and talk with the doctor. I wish you lots of luck.
2006-09-02 17:53:47 · answer #6 · answered by winnp1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to him about it. Maybe it is the fact that he is dealing with both giving up cigarettes AND getting surgery that is where all his energy is going. You need to talk to him about it and help him with it.
Good luck!
2006-09-02 17:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by sidnee_marie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, idk
2006-09-02 17:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by sar-mir 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋