I heard from a reliable sorce that my bf is crazy, literally. She dated his brother and said that he had broke his t.v. with a base ball bat and i remember him telling me how his base ball bat was all scratch. Another sorce said that he was going to try to have sex with me and I am still a virgin and sex is out of the question until marriage and i am only 15 so you get the point. I know I want to break up with him but I don't know how to... the last thing i won't to do is make him angry if you know what I mean. Please help me!
2006-09-02 17:24:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Has he ever done anything "crazy" in front of you? Or has he ever pressured you into having sex? If not, then I think its pretty lame to base whether or not to break up with him, by what other people are saying about him behind his back. That info is not always right.
But if you have decided that you really do want to break it off with him, and you are worried he is "crazy" then you should do it gently on the phone, so that there are no baseball bats involved. You're 15 though, if shouldn't be that big of a deal, kids your age break up with their "boyfriends" at least twice a week.
2006-09-02 17:30:30 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him on the phone and tell him it is over. Don't do it in person if he is as crazy as you stated then get a restraining order against him. Make sure when you go out someone is always with because there is no telling what he might try to do.
p.s. I had A crazy ex so I know
2006-09-02 17:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by meme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I would tell your parents what the deal is. Tell them how concerned for your safety and fear that your boyfriend might harm you. Hopefully your parents will confront his parents. If that doesn't work, then you go to the authorities and get a restraining order against your soon to be ex-boyfriend. That should do the trick. Whatever you do, cut off all contact with him after you tell him that it is over.
2006-09-02 17:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u think he's crazy then dont take the chance of breakin up with him alone take a couple guy friends with you or do it over the phone or in school. but be careful and if he starts stalking u or threatening u go tell someone u really trust someone that can help. i hope it works out. good luck
2006-09-02 18:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just tell him in a nice manner or at a nice dinner that you want to break up with him and if he acts out then, I am sorry just tell him the truth. Because lies just dont act out right truth is always right. But, if you really want to break up with him just dump him and tell him you dont love or like him any more.
Andi
2006-09-02 17:34:33 · answer #5 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is tell your mother and father about this boy, then envite him over and break up with him in front of your father, so he can't break anything.
Tell him you are doing him a favor, now he can go find someone who will have sex with him, but it's not going tobe you.
2006-09-02 17:32:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with him by phone and not in person, because he may become violent. Make sure after you do break up with him you dn't go out alone, because he could try and start stalking you and still become violent.
2006-09-02 17:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell him you have an incurable disease. Don't have sex with him! If he threatens you tell your parents or a school counselor.
2006-09-02 17:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE IN FEAR FOR OUR SAFETY, THEN MY ADVICE
IS TO LET SOME ONE KNOW WHAT GOING ON, THEN YOU
'CAN TELL HIM IT OVER. IF POSSIBLE HAVE SOMEONE WITH
YOU. BETTER TO BE SAFE THEN SORRY, IF IT TRUE
ABOUT HIM THEN YOU DONT KNOW WHAT HE MAY DO.
2006-09-02 17:30:19 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to make him mad, either. Be careful, your TV's welfare may be at risk. OH NO, NOT MR. PICTURE BUDDY! I NEED MY SPONGEBOB!
2006-09-02 17:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by He Haunts Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋