Does that give the other person a right to cheat? Dont know if he is or not but he is gone every weekend. Why not just end it? Instead he keeps trying to but his way back in. Now tonight I told him some realy mean things hopeing he will stay the hell away. I'm done with the relationship... but he keeps calling and texting and heck I want it over!
2006-09-02 17:20:35 · 23 answers · asked by jessicaann29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. You'll find ways to get even for the rest of your relationship. If you do stay together he'll probably do it again. 2 out of 3 inmates return to prison. People seldom change.
2006-09-02 17:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man, and even I can tell that you have been hurt very badly before and have a problem trusting a man.
Most regrets in life are not based on what we did, they are based on what we didn't do. If this guy is not cheating on you and really cares about you, and if you are kicking him out of your life based on nothing more than suspicions, you are making a big mistake and will pay for that mistake in your heart and soul for the rest of your life.
If you must know and to put your mind at rest, get someone to tail him and see what he does on the weekends, The truth will set you free, or if he is not cheating, it will open your heart and you will know the true meaning of trust and happiness and love.
You owe it to yourself to know the truth.
Always do things based on what you know. You cannot base anything on what you do not know, so don't go there.
Darryl S.
2006-09-02 17:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can forgive a person for cheating but you lost your trust in them and you may never be able to get it back just tell him you can't trust him in a relationship but you can try to be freinds if that doesn't work than tell him you don't need someone in your life making you feel like your feeling don't matter and to go ruin someone elses life. If he cheated than he didn't really love you no matter what he says and your better off without him pissing you off all the time, if you cheat than your just as bad as he is no matter what he did to you if you have to think about it than he's not the right one
2006-09-02 17:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by freckleface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetheart, the tex is easy, just put a block on him..No one has the right to cheat if you in a relationship..Point Blank...You just tell the guy its over and sweety say it like you mean it.. Now also to answeer your question you ask on your 360.. the reason for no pic.. Careful sweetheart, alot of young ones out here playing games, always check out there 360 before adding them, it will keep you safe..Your a fine looking lady and I'm sure Mr. Rights waiting for you...Your friend from Nashville...ROB
2006-09-02 17:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt give the other person a right to cheat.
my parents got divorced when i was 5 because of it. if youre 100% sure he cheated then dont cheat on him. unless you wnat to make him jealous and sorry, go for it if you want THAT type of impression.
if youre not 100% sure, smell his clothing when he gets back. yes, smell it. does it have cologne or perfume? hes probably cheating if he only wears cologne around you or when hes getting all intimate.
dont take his calls or texts! go on strike! lol.
if he isnt cheating, he might just be out with his friends drinking and stuff (like my dad used to do before my mum cheated on him for it) but then again.. i dont think youre raising two kids by yourself.
anyways, i hope this helps.
2006-09-02 17:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by x3perri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take from someone who has personal experience here... If you go back with this person, forgive him, and allow him to woo you back into a relationship, the chances are very good that he'll do it again... It's kind of like they figure that because you forgave them once, they can step over that line again, and you'll forgive him again... Just my opinion, but don't do it... It's time to find someone who wouldn't dream of cheating on you...You're worth more!!!
2006-09-02 17:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by StormCat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible to forgive but most never forget. And unless you really want things to work and put the effort into your relationship things will never be the same as before the cheating occurred. I know..I've been there and am still doing it. I was bad--I did the cheating--he forgave me but there are days when I look at him and I know its still there in the back of his mind.
2006-09-02 17:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jessica no cheating is bad and usally that ends you up in a mess
so stay away from him no visitation rights restriction within 50 miles only
2006-09-02 17:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you cheated? A person can forgive but, never forget. You sound mean. Do him a favor and end it for good.
2006-09-02 17:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My path down thatr road has always been end it then forgive later on. Once a cheater always a cheater. Change your number and email so he can't bother you so much. If he does not respect you enough to tell you where he is on those weekends, something is going on.
2006-09-02 17:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋