Ok, darian is a cute girl in my math class, and were new friends, i want a little outside help on this, what is the best way to develop a relationship with her? I want you to help. (long answers would help.)
2006-09-02 17:18:42 · 11 answers · asked by The Boy NextDoor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make sure you talk to her outside of class to start a good basis. Then as she gets more comfortable with you, ask for her number, email, whatever. Make sure that you keep in touch often, but not every day. Talk to her about her life, her problems, get to know her. Start by asking about what she likes to do in her spare time. See if you two have any common interests, and things that you both like to do. If you both like the beach, take a day and go together. Make sure to get to know her friends too. A girl's friends can make or break a new relationship. If they don't like you, then she won't be as willing to hang out with you.
2006-09-02 17:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by welches_grape_jelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Be yourself and be real. See people for who they are and not for who you want them to be or who you are afraid they are.
2) Be aware of yourself. Recognise your attraction to people, understand what you are attracted to in them and have a choice in what you will do about it.
3) Do not let anyone trample over your emotions. Know and respect your boundaries and communicate when they are crossed or endangered.
4) Be clear about your definition of an ideal relationship and be able to assess if a potential partner has the capacity to create that kind of relationship.
Asking her out...
1) Get inspired. Look back on the times when you enjoyed being around her, discovered that you have a lot in common, or realised that you had tremendous respect for her.
2) Put yourself in her shoes. Based on what you know about her, imagine what language or situations might make her uncomfortable, and avoid them. If you are unsure, err on the side of caution. Avoid overemphasising the appeal of her physical appearance.
3) Choose an appropriate venture for your disclosure, so that you can avoid embarassmant and awkwardness. Take her sailing, and say it admist the waters...
4) Make yourself clear. You don't have to be cryptic to be tactful. Rather than wrapping your feelings of romance in a riddle, clearly convey your atraction.
5) Keep the door open for a response, without putting pressure on her. Let her know that you want to remain friendly, even if you do not develop a closer relationship.
6) Give your declaration some time to sink in. It may take a few days or even weeks. Once you start counting the months go by, you can safely bet she is not interested.
2006-09-03 00:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by heatherlynnmorrow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all what type of relationship are you trying to develop as far as a friendship just talk to her start by saying hello and small talk every day add more to the conversation
2006-09-03 00:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by Dion O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for some help on home work, or ask her to get together with you to do your homework. Give her some genuine compliments. When you talk to her look her in the eyes. Eyes can say amazing things.
Walk her home from school. give her a wink once in awhile.
Don't smother her, but make her feel special.
2006-09-03 00:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are in math and will no doubt have alot of homework for it so why not hang a coffeshop do your homework together and get to know her at the same time. If it doesn't work out at least you'll have a good mark in math.
2006-09-03 00:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. girls love getting caught in a conversation that they didn't realize lasted for an hour. if you can talk, its one of the best ways to get to know her and to know what activities she is involved in and what she likes to do, etc...also, is you are interested in the same kinds of things, then go into more detail about them, also, if you are going to ask her out, don't ask her to a movie, that shows that you basically want to make out with her.....ask her for coffee or something spontaneous and fun. i hope i was of help.
2006-09-03 00:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by ......... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to develop...do something together. she must have a hobby, right? then do it with her and share you thoughts and hobby.
try to always be with her, but don't do it 24 hours. she'll feel uncomfortable.
good luck =)
2006-09-03 00:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by kito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very nice at all times find out what she like .music.moves.so on go with it .
2006-09-03 00:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by LONA R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a gentle man, and do not pretend be genuine and go with the flow
2006-09-03 00:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys think u should give a sign 2 girls that u like them by being mean 2 them, but hello can u say KINDERGARDEN! wat girls really like is for u to be nice 2 them and charm them. give them signs that u like them and if u figure out she likes u ask her out.? just be nice.
2006-09-03 00:25:33 · answer #10 · answered by jesso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋