2006-09-02 17:17:57 · 6 answers · asked by B K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I was 15 I liked a 20 year old guy. I go to college (i'm 16 now) and at first he didn't know how old I was, and he liked me so it messed with my head. Well I was obsessed with him, and when he found out how old i was he was of course like, umm no.. lol. He was hard to get over but believe me looking back on it, I realize it was just a phase. It NEVER would of worked out, and older guys have so much more 'experience' it's intimidating. I know it's hard, but I think it's important to move past him. Especially if there a large age difference.
2006-09-02 17:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything drastic or stupid to get his attention and "prove a point" (like doing things you reckon older people do, etc). It will only show him you're immature/insecure. Act cool. Dress a bit older. Be smart and relaxed. Don't act timid. Be independent and confident. Confidence is attractive and something that older people have more of (than younger people).
If nothing happens and he doesn't realise you like him, he's probably not into you. Have you spoken much to him?
2006-09-02 17:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Satinette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find someone else . He is not interested . Sounds cruel but he is already telling you he is not interested . There are too many other guys out there to spend any more time on something that is not going to be . Good luck !
2006-09-02 17:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a little kid? Show him you are mature.
2006-09-02 17:21:03 · answer #4 · answered by Angie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on - you shouldn't have to prove anything to him, look for someone who respects you :-)
2006-09-02 17:21:31 · answer #5 · answered by brownfamilyfw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you and how old is he?
2006-09-02 17:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by MrsJR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋