My bf and i have been going out with each other for the last 5 months. THis one girl has been trying to break us up the whole time. SHe has tried everything in the book. WEll the other day she supposedly made out with him. oNe of her really good friends promises she saw them. HE completely denies it. OF course.. THe girl has ruined my rep. at skewl and i want to beat her up.. I love my boyfriend and i dont know what to believe. oR do for that matter. Oh and to make everything worse he is still friends with her, and says I made her say this to me. ( yeah she told me the whole thing) But then she has also told the whole skewl. Please help me. WHat should i do??
2006-09-02 17:17:54 · 19 answers · asked by KGW 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im scared he wants me to break up with him. Maybe he does. BUt he is definitely the best thing that has ever happened to me. It just doesnt look good. :-(
2006-09-02 17:53:58 · update #1
What is more important, your pride or your boyfriend. I don't think that you have complete trust in him and so your love for him is causing you pain. I would have a 'Come to Jesus' talk with your boyfriend and just tell him how you feel. I don't like your 'friendship' with that woman, if you want to be my boyfriend then be with me, only. I am not jealous of her, but I would feel like you love me if you just stopped talking or being around her. Throw it in his court, if he kicks ya to the curb, then he would have played ya anyway.
2006-09-02 17:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by Russ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, its best not to fight her because it won't solve anything, but create a bigger gap in the situation. There's something i don't understand, why would your boyfriend be friends with this female if she's trying to break you both up..That doesn't sound good baby. To me anytime he's blaming you for the things she said, it sounds like he's guilty of what has been said took place. Some guys actually do accuse the female of things, when their actually guilty. I hope this is not the case, but i'm just saying it happens. I know you love him, but you can't allow that love to make you become a victim of deceit. If you gotta call it quits do so, but seek the truth because it will eventually come out.
2006-09-02 17:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by henryskia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is the one trying to break u two up, then try as hard as u can not to give up ur bf, if u do, then she has won him and the whole school will think u r a loser and isnt good enough for him. try to keep him away from her as much as u can. and in school, be with him all the time, keep an eye on him and act like a desperate loving couple that always stay be each other's side.
2006-09-02 17:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Cecilia ♡ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is, stand by your man or he's gone. Simple.
Her on the other hand, you can play dirty and get her back, just don't let her know it's you. Here's a list of things you can do.
Spray mace in her locker, when she in gym class, spray her panties with pepper spray.
Put Visene in her cokes or what ever she is drinking.
Put some drugs in her purse then call the police and get her arrested.
Pick a fight with her and let her hit you, then file charges on her for assault.
Get her kicked out of school is the hole idea here.
Spread a rummor that she's bi sexual.
give out her email to every guy you know. have your bf write her number on all the mens bathroom walls.
2006-09-02 17:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think this friend of hers is telling you that he made out with her in one of the many games in the book to get her to break up with you, I kinda think so,
Ask him again if this happened tell her who told you and he'd NOT BE LYIN "DID YOU KISS THIS OTHER CHICK" and tell me now, if he's still friends with her it's also a possibility that it happened, but her friend could be playing games with your mind in help of her,
Keep in mind i'm 27 and i remember these type of things in high school, atleast i take it your in high school, I have no communication with any of my high school girls, haven't really since the day we graduated, Once your out of high school you"ll realize.
As far as her telling the whole school, Typical teenage school drama, It'll only get better with time.
2006-09-02 17:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by the d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill the b*tch! haha. kidding.
if your boyfriend says he didn't do it, you myt as well believe him & not what some other people say. also, ask your guy to stop being friends with the other girl because it bothers you and it hurts you (point out that the girl actually has ruined your rep, etc.). if he doesn't do that for you, well, break up with him. you'll survive. besides, if he loves you, he wont let anybody / anything hurt you.. more so, him hurting you.
2006-09-02 17:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by daydream13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 07:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Totally way more guys out there that aren't creeps. Don't start 'accepting' losers at this point in your life. Seriously, you so deserve more but YOU have to want more and believe in yourself to walk away and find someone hugely more sincere than this dude.
2006-09-02 17:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by bcbound 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THERE NOTHING YOU REALLY CAN DO, IF YOU TRUST YOUR BOYFRIEND THEN WHAT SHE SAY DOES NOT MATTER/ BUT IF THERE IS A ISSUES THEN YOU NEED TO
COMFRONT HIM ABOUT IT. AS YOU STATED SHE HAS BEEN'
TRYING EVERY WAY TO BREAK YOU UP THIS MAY BE WHAT
SHE THINK WILL HAPPEN. SO GET EVERY THING OUT IN
THE OPEN. AND THEN GO FROM THERE. IT MAY BE TRUE
AND IT MAY BE ALL LIES. TALK TO HIM. AND LET HIM KNOW
]HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THIS.
2006-09-02 17:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably cheating on you. Especially, if he's telling you to break up with him. Move on and let the little SOB get her way. It'll come back to bite her in the a s s.
2006-09-02 19:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by Lavina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋