what do i do when i love a girl but we arent together but i am with another girl that i rele like. i dont want to hurt my girlfriend but idk if i can just not be with my love. help me please
2006-09-02 17:04:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have some alone time and think to yourself, who means more to you? What makes you like your girlfriend and this 'other' girl? Think about the goods and the bads and decided whether who you want to be with more. I mean, it sounds like you're not putting enough honesty into your relationship anyway. You're hurting you, your girlfriend, and possibly the other girl because it's like, cheating on both of them. Not good. Confront your feelings and see where they take you.
Good luck.
2006-09-02 17:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't be a jerk to your current girlfriend by leading her on - that will hurt her even more than if you simply broke up with her.
Second, do NOT get stuck on the fence. Make a decision, and take a giant leap. Don't stay with your girlfriend as a safety net - she would hate that.
2006-09-03 00:09:07 · answer #2 · answered by senyosali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with your self and with both of them. You should never stay in a relationship with somone if you dont love them and are in love with someone else, it will just end up causing more problems.
2006-09-03 00:10:33 · answer #3 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant have your cake and eat it too, just because someone new or interesting comes along, is it really worth losing what you have now? you have to chose, you dont want them both finding out and being that hurt by you that you end up with no one.
2006-09-03 00:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth. hiding it is so much worse, and that would suck if later on in the future you dump her and she asks you how long you have had these feelings for this other girl, and you have to tell her the truth......so, its better to do it now, or soon, then later and she will think you are an a**. hope i could be of some help.
2006-09-03 00:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by ......... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with your girlfriend. You obviously don't love her, and by waiting you will make it more painful. Tell her in a calm way and reassure her that it's not anything she did.
2006-09-03 00:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Dan-Bi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to decide who means more to u......just decide and i am getting the impretion u are young to be asking this for of question...if u really love one over the other then go for it...but u never know who is really the one untill ur older...trust me young love hardly ever works......and if ur not young....then go for the one u love....its so worth it....she may be the one......go for it......good luck!
2006-09-03 00:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by *lonely one* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be with the one you love. You're just fooling yourself but if that's what floats your boat, you go for it. Love doesn't happen that often.......
2006-09-03 00:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rate each girl. pros and cons. see which one fits your personality. choose the best girl for you.
2006-09-03 00:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better stick with your girlfriend.
2006-09-03 00:07:25 · answer #10 · answered by kito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋